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No. 402287[Reply]

Discuss plastic surgery and your plastic surgery goals here. This is not a thread to brigade on regarding your dislike of plastic surgery - please create a plastic surgery hate thread to talk about that.

Previous plastic surgery threads below:
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No. 446776

>>446774
Honestly I would be very wary of injecting anything near my eyes, even fat kind of freaks me out.

No. 447146

>>446758
TCA peels are really potent if you do it multiple times. I suspect they can be more effective than regular microneedling but less effective than the $1000 treatments obviously. You can get them done in a clinic for $100 -200 or you can DIY it at home. There are tutorials on youtube how to DIY it but it is extremely dangerous. You risk going blind if it gets in your eyes for instance. I do 70% glycolic peels (i am working up to TCA peels. Glycolic acid peels are less strong) and it's spooky.

No. 456543

checking in: i had a brow lift, cheek lift, facial fat transfer and and rhinoplasty two weeks ago.
brows and cheeks overcorrection has come down a lot but still has me looking like an alien. doctor said give it at least four weeks so i’m hanging in there. one side of my face looks more normal but chubby, while the other the contour of my cheek looks very handsome swuidward-esque.
rhino bandages came off two days ago and i’m fairly happy with it. the results makes me ambivalently hopeful the rest resolves itself similarly. after images on realself are like at least 2 months post op so i’m trying very hard to be optimistic and patient. however, predictably, the tip reduction also made my longer philtrum more obvious and alien, which i already wanted to correct with a lip lift too. the idea of going through this AGAIN has trying not to be even more angry with myself i even started on this road.
it’s too soon to really judge but i can’t help but regret this shit—hard. looking back at rare photos of myself i was a below average looking girl, but at least i was natural. now it’s christmas time and i’m too embarrassed with what i’ve done to myself to see my own mother. thank god i work from home.
i will be back with an update in a few weeks; fingers crossed that i’m feeling and looking better.

No. 456932

>>456543
Your feelings are totally normal I promise. I went through it too. It's really just the swelling and you got 3 separate things done in one go so the swelling is going to be even worse.

No. 457083

>>456932
Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it.



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No. 434936[Reply]

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No. 455901

>>455737
My vagina is pretty warm, it's because of all the blood rushing. Definitely warmer than my hands

No. 455903

>>455737
I do a lot of intentionally obtuse humble brags on this board bc I think they're kek but mine emits heat. I have an ex with your situation and it was genuinely startling the first time I realized she had a room temp. vagina. They're probably wondering if you're wearing a prosthetic and are really trans, especially the woman you hooked up with. It probably does have to with your circulation since my ex had issues with that but I would just tell people you have "cool chi" or an "autumn pussy". If you insist it's already an established thing, others will buy it and follow suit. Confidence is key, anon

No. 456505

>>455903
>wearing a prosthetic and are really trans
Is this a common thing? Like do you mean surgery vaginas are colder or are troons wearing some type of fleshlight situation? God I hope she didn’t make that assumption about me the dyke circles where I am are super small…and thanks for the advice kek, I’ll try not to dwell on it

No. 456513

>>456505
"Stealthing" is common unfortunately yeah but I was mostly just messing with you and I doubt she really thought you were trans. With my ex it genuinely only startled me as an immediate first reaction and then it kind of made sense since she always had cold hands too. To get really clinical about it, it probably fluctuates throughout the month along with your basal body temp. and like another anon said relates to blood flow and arousal. I should have said mine "emits heat" when I'm turned on but is normally probably more like yours. If you have access to reliable/free healthcare it wouldn't hurt to check your circulation and hormone levels if it really bothers you or never changes

No. 456550

>>456505
no this is not a common thing. nothing about the cool chi autumn pussy post you replied to is common or normal or reasonable what the fuck



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No. 332611[Reply]

I’ve been here for quite some years and I know a lot of you have been, too. Surely a percentage of posters here are around 30, or over 30. For those of you that are - how are you handling it?

Share your successes, insecurities, and life wisdom. Share fashion and beauty advice.

How do you feel about nearing 30/being over 30? Have you found the incel cope about 30+ women to be true in any way? What were your biggest fears, and what are your biggest triumphs at your current age?

Absolutely no Zoomers allowed in this thread, unless you’re an elder Zoomer. Zoomer ageism is peak stupidity and we won’t have it here.
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No. 456450

>>456443
you might feel like you're dying because 110 is too low for 5 foot 5. I'm 5'3(.5) and my lowest easily maintainable weight is 113-114, and you've got ~2 inches on me. 125 sounds like a healthy weight for your height so I wouldn't try to lose more. I understand your frustration about having a big butt and thighs, that has always been my problem too, but short of paying for liposuction some of us will just always have that sort of silhouette. It really does suck though, finding pants that fit is a nightmare, anything that fits my thighs absolutely hangs off my waistline and won't stay up at all. So much so that if I try to use a belt, all the fabric scrunches up in my crotch and looks horrific. I've tried putting in darts which can help.

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No. 456499

Gotta love how the 30+ anons posting sound mostly serene and at peace with aging while the late 20s anons are panicking about not being young anymore, it's like poetry.

No. 456503

I'm 35. Look way better than 10 years ago. Much less retarded also. Still got things to figure out but getting there.

No. 456531

>>456499
I posted earlier about being 28 and seeing signs of age and reading through this thread calmed me immensely. I hope I can enter my thirties with the same mindset as the nonnas ITT and live a happy life. Maybe I can find the confidence to get a girlfriend then.



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No. 348009[Reply]

Previous thread: >>>/g/174637
Talk about sex toys, stimulation, techniques, etc.
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No. 456487

>>456459
Kekkk, idk, I just feel like it might be weird that I basically am never horny enough to start jilling it without being bored and deciding to masturbate because why not. That plus I read like dozens of women both here and other sites say that they just focus on the physical sensation of things while just using their hands and come no problem, whereas my physical sensation feels pretty limited in response & takes me hours sometimes… Maybe I'm overthinking it, but I'd like to learn(?) enough to be more like the ladies who can make themselves cum in 5 minutes
>>456400
I never kept count but back when I was incredibly depressed I got like 6 in one day and 12 in two days. Get those rookie numbers up, nonnie! jk do what you like

No. 456489

im so jealous of everyone that can orgasm and go for multiple times because once i climax once its just a wrap for me. is it possible to go on for longer with practice or am i just weird? whenever i try i either feel too stimulated or just grossed out and tired ugh fml

No. 456490

>>456489
I'm the same as you. But I'm sure people who have the energy to go at it multiple times still have a "cooldown" in between. At best my cooldown is around 10s

No. 456491

>>456489
It's not that great because it comes with the major downside of never feeling "done" and satisfied, you always want another orgasm. I remember being a teenager getting into masturbation for the first time and angrily googling questions about this. It drove me insane for a little while but I guess as I matured I just accepted it. I'm >>456425 and I just realized the reason I'm like that is because once i start, the only way I can stop is when I'm literally physically so exhausted I can't continue, and I hardly ever have time to dedicate 5 hours to masturbating, which is why I do it so infrequently.

No. 456587

>>456400
I've pushed it to 7 times in one day. Tbh I think I have moid tier refractory period. When I was a coomer I would routinely do it 1-3 time a day, but once I orgasm I need to wait for at least 10-30 minutes and after so many orgasms, things start getting achy. It sucks during ovulation when you are basically perma horny and nothing can scratch that itch, but on the plus side I orgasm easily in various ways and my orgasms go on for a long time, so I cope by thinking it's a matter of quality over quantity kek.



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No. 371060[Reply]

Talk about all things perfume, share your favorite scents, and get recommendations.

Previous thread
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No. 448405

can someone recommend me something similar to Clinique's Happy but with actual lasting power? I love it but it's so weak on my skin and it lasts 3 hours max…

No. 454395

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Bought a unique sample as a fragrance normie and I genuinely did a double take on the first spray. The moss, mushroom, wool and fruity notes were the strongest but it also kinda smelled like rain. Wouldnt wear it on a date but its so weirdly addicting I cant stop sniffing it. The perfumer D.Greyi is pretty unknown he makes a lot of interesting asian inspired perfumes with unique notes (weed, durian, carrot, matcha, spray paint, pho) if any niche fragrance nonas were looking for something new

No. 456286

What is whore perfume??

I tend to like sweet, floral scents my favorites right now being Gorgeous Magnolia and Goddess by Burberry. Well I was getting ready with some girls and I put Goddess on and when one of the girls asked for the brand another said it was prostitute perfume??? I don't get it.

No. 456330

>>456286
The only time I heard the term "whore perfume" it was always referring to the smell of gloss.
>>454395 I remember seeing fantasy themed fragrances, like World of warcraft etc.. there were some like; leather, bog, brimstone, ogre's sweat, elf… I've always wanted to own them, know what they smell like.

No. 456341

>>456286
They probably mean perfumes that strippers commonly use, which tends to be strong, very sweet, and cheap



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No. 444697[Reply]

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No. 454919

>>454818
As a rectangle fag I'm always annoyed by these guides because it's always about creating the illusion of curves to get a more feminine womanly uwu figure, it's hard to find guides about leaning on your natural androgyny.

No. 455602

>>454852
Just wanted to let you know I don't think you should feel like you have to try and change or hide your shape. She was both petite and had a rectangle figure. My thought was that it was another option to play around with. I can see why it looks like her picks were leaning gen x like.

No. 456262

What can you say to someone who is stuck in negative, self hating spirals? Is there a gentle way to snap someone out of it? Or do you have to be firm? I know that deep down this person wants to get better, but they lapse into these patterns of fear and pain and get stuck

No. 456298

Ladies I need to use to a pic for my fb marketplace post for finding a roommate but don't want to use actual photos of my house online. Can you provide me with some wholesome substitutes?

No. 456316

>>456298
If you’re uncomfortable using your own place, take a photo from Google maps and try to get your place plus a neighbor or two if possible. That way they don’t exactly know which is yours.



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No. 377685[Reply]

This is a support thread for women who have been abused by an intimate partner, whether physically, verbally, emotionally, sexually, or in some other form. Discussion of experiences with either male or female abusers are welcome, but please keep the focus of this thread on the unique circumstances involving partners (e.g., boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse) rather than other types of relationships.

Topics of discussion may include things such as:
>lasting damages stemming from manipulative or violent behavior and how to heal
>advice for leaving an ongoing relationship
>tips for protecting your physical, legal, or financial safety after leaving
>venting about past experiences
>recovery milestones, positive growth/changes made after abuses
>unlearning warped beliefs instilled by a past partner
>building new, healthy relationships with genuine love and respect

Please avoid infighting by comparing whose experiences were worse or blaming victims by implying that they "had it coming," "asked for it," or "deserved" the mistreatment. The feelings felt by victims are complex and women frequently experience genuine feelings of affection or attachment to their abusers, or face risks and consequences if they consider leaving; while it is desirable that all women who are in an unhealthy relationship may escape, please try to be sympathetic that sometimes a woman may hold onto lingering sentiments, wind up going back, or not feel ready/safe enough to immediately leave her situation just yet, and that these are all common and normal for these situations.
Many women find it stressful (and reminiscent of the abuser) when they are told what exactly they ought to do or feel in response to abusiveness, and it is often more helpful to encourage her to build her confidence and self-worth rather than push decisions onto her. The average woman attempts to leave 7 times before escaping for good.

Resources:
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No. 444935

I've been keeping tabs on an ex that got pretty violent with me. Every few months he gets a new mughshot and another charge for BATTERY-TOUCH OR STRIKE (DOMESTIC). He's gotten three of them in the past year. I feel bad for whoever he's with now, but I'm kinda baffled that he hasn't been tossed in jail for a few days.

No. 455229

I've been in therapy for over a year trying to heal from a narcissistic relationship that ended almost four years ago. I know I'm getting better, but I'm just so sad it happened in the first place and that it destroyed me for so long. I think I'm finally starting to feel like myself again, and it's very unusual. I've literally never had this thought or desire at any point before, but the other week, I found myself wanting to contact my ex. I won't, but I almost miss him. These past three years I had never felt anything positive towards him after leaving him, and all of sudden I'm getting emotional about the good times. Why now? Maybe I just finally feel safe enough to explore that aspect of the relationship.


Also, I don't know if this anon >>407979 will see this but if you do I am still thinking of you fondly and hoping that you are doing okay. I hope you've found some peace in the present.

No. 455659

I know everyone's story is different but I learned something about certain abusers from my marriage (which just ended officially on paper THIS WEEK). He never took pleasure in the abuse. He didn't see himself as a controller or an authority. He always did it because he saw it as self defense when he was victimized. I feel like I got an idea from movies that a man would hit you for fun, or because he's some kind of sadist who accepts and enjoys being a bad person. So it threw me for a loop because he always made me feel like I was victimizing him in some way.
I "hurt him" when:
>I didn't send pictures to prove that I was out with friends instead of cheating
>I asked him to wash; he had "childhood neglect trauma" that I activated because his hippie mother never taught him to bathe or brush his teeth
>I stayed late at work, because it triggered his abandonment issues
>I listened to other musician friends' music, because I should have known he's self-conscious about his music and needs extra validation
>I spoke to someone too long at a party, which triggered his social anxiety
>I wouldn't let him have sex with me, because again, triggered his anxiety
>and more
It was because I was a horrible partner who failed to placate his many sensitivities. So I deserved to get stonewalled for days, have things thrown at me, get locked out of the house, and driven miles away to be kicked out of the car and abandoned on the side of the road. It really is still amazing that some people abuse because they think they are victims standing up for themselves.

No. 456228

>>455659
Sounds like male bippie behavior with the way every ounce of abuse you receive from them is justified in their eyes because they tell themselves it's your fault and insist that they are the eternal victims, with the constant need for validation over the littlest things, and needing your life to revolve around them 24/7 or they'll feel "abandoned".

No. 456536

>>455659

This is exactly how my abuser operated too.

My crying was just attempts to guilt trip him. My wanting to spend time with him was just attempts to isolate him. My wondering where the man I first met just attempts to idealize him. My confrontations on his inconsistent behaviors and words were just attempts to gaslight him. So on and so forth. In the end, everything had to go his way, on his terms, with no responsibilities or considerations towards me, else I was controlling him and he was not living as his authentic self.

I realized later that he was constantly triangulating and cheating on me (at least emotionally). He's 30, has dozens of exes with only a few months each, yet somehow all of the breakups are never his fault. A preference for GNC & tifs, which we all know are an at risk population for abuse. Claims to be asexual, but I'll bet he just objectifies/degrades women and has a porn addiction.

Honestly, so glad he discarded me. Huge, huge, huge bullet dodged. He has major signs of ASPD/NPD. I failed to see just how much danger I was in until the trauma bond withdrawals calmed down. I've had so much support from friends, coworkers and my therapist in processing and preventing any real hoovering.

Honestly, walking away from him post-discard has taught me that I can walk away from anyone. And the relief from no longer being manipulated 24/7 has made being alone so peaceful. I used to be scared of being alone, but now I understand my true fear is being objectified, degraded, manipulated. I couldn't see him for what he was in the middle of it all.

Always trust your body. It understood long before I did consciously that this man was not safe.



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No. 303045[Reply]

Previous thread: >>170544

Post anything and everything makeup here: product reviews, product questions, cool looks, etc. Thinking of compiling a document with products that get mentioned a lot for future OP posts so feel free to suggest your faves!
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No. 453502

>>452917
I think I see some green in you. One of the go-to tips for trying to figure out if you're olive or not is taking a selfie in a car in the sunlight, something about it just instantly brings out any olive tones in people who have them. I am pretty much sheet white but I have a cool olive undertone and look like I have jaundice in cars lol.

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I wanna stop wearing fake eyelashes. They are annoying and the glue always gets stuck to my eyelid, but when i don’t wear them my makeup feels incomplete. Are single lashes easier than strip lashes? Is there a good mascara i can use?

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No. 454128

>>454051
This chart is actually so damn accurate

No. 456223

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Does anyone have a recommendation for a makeup desk? Im finding it hard to get a practical one that I can organize all my hair and makeup stuff in.

I currently have pic related but the shelves and drawers are very small. Can't even fit my brush organizer and you can barely put anything on the desk itself because it blocks the mirror doors from opening.

What I like about it:

>has electric plugs

>mirror light with multiple settings
>you can open mirror doors so you can do your hair and makeup and look from multiple angles

That's about it. I'm having to put most of my stuff like the blowdrier, iron, ect on the very top of it because no space. I have a lot of makeup palettes that also take space inside the drawers and it's difficult to angle them in a way where they don't take all of the space since the drawers are very small.

Please help!



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No. 452130[Reply]

For anything skincare related.

Previous thread >>>/g/317231
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No. 455050

>>454926
Lea Seydoux has such dreamy eyes I've always loved them, mine are the same shape but have lost alot of fat so I'm tempted to buy and try
I tried the cheap way before (hyaluronic acid sealed with vaseline) and it gave me a slight boost but the results isn't long lasting at all
This gave me so much hope because I hate my sunken eyes the update is appreciated!

No. 456129

>>455037
I just apply it after having applied eye cream/ some lip balm. For a while, when I ran out of eye cream, I just used it on top of my moisturizer and it was completely fine.
>>455050
I'd say go for it - a bottle costs quite a lot but I assume it lasts approx 5-10 months, depending on how much you use. It's just that the effects seem so random and you can never predict if it will even do anything. The effects are nothing nobody would outright notice, but for me they're just like a small net positive, like a little bonus.

No. 456172

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nonnies, do pimple patches actually work? i don't get a ton of acne anymore but it'd be nice if they worked on the occasional whiteheads i get

No. 456176

>>456172
They work incredibly well on whiteheads. 100% worth it.

No. 456180

>>456172
just use compeed or other hydrocolloid bandages, they work better than any patch I used



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No. 413813[Reply]

Post your favorite examples of men who have aged like milk or ‘hit the wall’.

Discuss the “men age like wine, women age like milk” cope meme, common amongst undesirable men

Old thread >>>/g/152993
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No. 454913

>>448494
Cope. The reason they don't is because it would look like this >>445069
The area above the temples (idk what you call it, the wedge shape between front and sides) is the first area that the male hairline recedes and thins out. Even if they don't go bald the follicle count decreases so their hair acts the same way very fine hair does and sits flat, no volume. You get a few years when they're in their early twenties but beyond that, don't bother.

No. 456150

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he's barely 30

No. 456151

>>456150
He just needs a haircut

No. 456153

>>456150
he is almost 31 actually his new gf is 26 and even uglier

No. 456171

>>456150
it's over!



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