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No. 536154[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about EGL & EGA fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your Lolita friendships. Ex Lolitas and newbies are welcomed too.
Old thread >>>/g/208345
Ita Thread >>>/g/466899
Favorite coords thread: >>>/g/528205

For drama, check out the tread on /w/
most recent: >>>/w/338177
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No. 585943

>>585051
When I started, Meta had only just begun to ship overseas and shipping and customs made it ridiculously expensive, like €400 for a basic JSK. Meta wasn’t exactly coveted back then either (with few exceptions) so I don’t know anyone who ordered from them. The only ‘shopping services’ were friends/family who travelled to Japan for work or holiday and could buy dresses in-store for you. The only other option was Bodyline, which was even shittier back then and sold for almost brand prices at conventions. Ironically my local comm was genuinely elitist then and the inner circle was this tiny club of girls who could afford to travel to Japan once a year and shop in-store. Everyone else was on the margins, kind of awkwardly socialising at cons and other public events but not allowed in the ‘official’ lolita community. I remember trying to talk to the brand girls after a fashion show they’d organised at a con once, wearing a handmade dress, and they completely ignored me, like pretended I wasn’t there and they couldn’t hear me talking. I was 14 and cried when I got home kek

Anyway it’s wild to me when people act like the lolita community in 2025 is elitist and the clothes are hard to get. It has never been easier to wear lolita or find a community that accepts you. There’s people in my comm now who post ‘coords’ that consist largely of Genshin Impact cosplay pieces and people still praise them. The bar is on the floor.

No. 585945

>>585943
That's very similar to my experience when I started out in maybe 2010. I would've killed for something like Lacemarket back then. However in Germany we had this small social media website to share coords with that also had a 2nd hand clothing section so it was possible to get your hands on burando already. There used to be a big section to help you coordinate and that helped explain rules too so everything you need to start out. RIP Dunkelsüß

No. 585957

>>585785
As >>585794 said you should try washing and air-drying first. Maybe add vinegar in the softener compartment if your piece can handle it as vinegar's really efficient at getting smells out. If you freeze your skirt don't stretch the shirring until it gets back to room temperature, that way the elastic should stay mostly intact.

No. 585958

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No. 586013

New thread here >>>/g/585962
Nonna who made it didn't post link and I accidentally made a repeat and had to delete kek, so I'm posting it.


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No. 70049[Reply]

Post ringspo

What gems do you think are worthy of an engagement ring besides diamond?
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No. 446648

>>446646
cute james

No. 446659

>>391433
Oh we can tell.

No. 585838

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not exactly this but Something Like It

No. 585863

Is the engagement ring the same as the wedding ring? What if you don't like it, could you change the ring?

No. 585906

>>585863
the engagement ring is what you propose with, it's usually the flashy diamond one. The wedding ring is typically a plain band and you put it on at the ceremony. Some people wear only their wedding band, only an engagement ring, or get a matching set.
>what if you don't like the ring?
I feel like these days most women choose their ring before the proposal so this doesn't happen.


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No. 408697[Reply]

Explain why you‘re against plastic surgery, discuss its influence on women and society as a whole, share stories of botched plastic surgery, expose evil plastic surgeons etc. etc.
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No. 585878

>>585740
Why would such a cute normal looking woman choose to become an ayy lmao… Looks gaunt and scary

No. 585880

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>>585740
Genuinely tragic. She had such a sweet face and all her features fit her, I love her natural nose.

No. 585881

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>>585880
Something like this should facilitate a change in contracts for actors, like you can't get feature-altering plastic surgery for continuity purposes or something if you want to remain on the show.

No. 585890

>>585807
She does not have lupus. She has Graves' disease, which causes facial swelling due to fat expansion. I believe she tried to get work done to correct it but went too far.

No. 585892

>>585890
That's an excuse for her extreme filler, in the same way Zac Effron claimed his gigantic chin implant is actually just swelling from a convoluted accident where he tripped and fell.


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No. 220643[Reply]

A thread for the loners here (all of us). Venting, how you deal with it, how you spend your time etc.
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No. 585831

>>585396
I relate to this way too much. I was a big bully to anyone that rubbed me the wrong way all through middle and high school, and didn't realize how awful I was until years later. I feel disgusted that I would at any point let myself do that and feel that there's no way I can make up for what I've done. I ought to just kill myself.
The truth is we were young and naïve, and because there's no way to truly make up for it self-loathing won't every do anyone any good. You say you mask as a nice person but I feel like you're not masking, you're projecting your past self onto who you are not because now you've grown to be a decent person.

No. 585832

>>585396
I genuinely have npd around males and people say it can't be npd and I'm just twaumatised but like. Why do I fit every fucking diagnostic criterion and analysis of it then around moids

No. 585858

>>585832
People can develop NPD because of trauma. My recommendation is to get an opinion from a female psychiatrist. Not only can they help with a possible treatment you could also be comorbid with something else entirely.
Regardless I think you should try getting comfortable around non-moids because I think you'll find most aren't going to hold behavior when you were a literal child against you.

No. 585925

>>585858
Female psychs have also scoffed at the idea because I'm nice and normal around women I guess? But I fit every diagnostic symptom of NPD around moids . I want to put them down, be better than them, satisfy my ego, have shitty self worth, I have vindictive rage and urges to sabotage and get people to attack them, classic narcissism

No. 585990

>>585925
what are you trying to get back at them for? I don't doubt you've got your reasons, I'm just curious what they are.


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No. 444697[Reply]

Previous Thread: >>393926
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No. 585805

>>585802
but like did "the conversation" ever came up? were you asked if it was your first time, or did you just went in and did it without the other one asking? like i won't lie about my inexperience, but at the same time, i worry that if i keep it too real 24/7 i'll never be able to do it haha. like i just want to get it out of the way, a relationship doesn't even have to happen after.

No. 585806

>>585805
She already knew I was inexperienced. It wasn’t a problem though. I think she was mostly worried about rushing me or making me feel uncomfortable, but I ended up being the crazy slavering animal in bed kek.

No. 586906

Hi guys. I'm coming back from an exchange year in a week and a bit. I unfortunately missed my BFF's graduation + party so I want to make up for it. I know specific things she likes but like… I want to do something big and nice. Do you have any ideas? We live in the city so I thought maybe high tea at a fancy place, but what are some good GIFT ideas? She likes anything cute, lolita fashion (but she's been out of it recently), Sylvanian families, etc. Anything helps, ty.

No. 587305

Nonnas who are prescribed antidepressants, can you give me any advice? I've been depressed for the past 10 years just about and I'm finally seeking help. I think it's time I tried medicating it, but I have some second thoughts.


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No. 305399[Reply]

Post and discuss all of your sexual fantasies! Don't turn this into "fetishes you're ashamed of #2" though.
Old thread: >>>/g/182352
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No. 585472

>>585103
I didn't make the first post and I haven't spammed anything, schizo

No. 585776

ok imagine having a nigel and starving him. like whenever he's eating you just yell at him, you bully him constantly about being fat, so he's too traumatized to eat, all you allow him to have are vegetables and nuts
his beard thins out, his body shrinks but you still bully him into working out and looking attractive
his body becomes frail and his hormonal system shuts off rendering him weak, with little sexual vigor or even mental energy to stand up to you, maybe he even becomes so weak you easily overpower him anyways

he becomes the perfect cute subby loyal moid, and since his penis can't get hard anymore all he does is eat you out whenever you tell him to

No. 585781

>>585776
was this inspired by the relationship advice thread discussion

No. 585791

>>585781
nope what discussion

No. 585792

>>585781
nevermind i found it
no the moid should be a healthy looking normal young man that you bully into being unhealthy, not some over-eating fatty


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No. 546841[Reply]

In this thread, please write down the earliest red flags you realized you had ignored after the friendship or relationship went to shit. Let's learn from eachother the early signs of future abuse or just a shit person so we can avoid people like that in the future.
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No. 585726

I’m an oldfag and I’ve come to learn that whatever interpersonal dysfunction/complexs a man has not resolved by 30-33 years old will be baked into their personality until the day they die and will either stay the same or even get worst with age. There will be no breakthrough or personal growth or insight that will cause them to step and reflect hey, I am getting older and want to make a massive change to my life and live completely differently. IE if they are a superficial social climbing careerist with a corresponding mediocre career trajectory at 30 then by 40 that’s still who they will be. If they are 30 and shitposting on Reddit at 2am at 30, thats what they will be doing at 2am at 60. Women (not an everyone but a significant minority) are capable of make late/later in life breakthroughs in career/mindset/lifestyle and adapting to feedback from the environment. Moids are basically almost never able to irregardless of what fairy tales they like to tell themselves about muh bootstraps and muh kfc. The moral of the story is everything is a red flag if you are willing to tolerate it for the belief that one day they “grow out” of it or “become more mature”.

No. 585757

>>585726
30-33 is too generous. I'd lower it to 25. That overly parroted fact about the brain sticking at 25 is definitely real for moids at least

No. 585783

>>577037
>as well as how MANY exes
Even one ex is too many

No. 586928

is a guy refusing to get a job or moving out of his parents house a red flag?

No. 586930

>>586928
Yes, always.


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No. 406216[Reply]

Chartposters, this is your new home. Post your charts and let's see if anyone cares.
Best resources for creating and interpreting your birth chart:
General/Various Systems: https://www.astro-seek.com/
Vedic: https://www.astrosage.com/freechart/
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No. 585707

>>585699
I hear you, nona. It sucks feeling like things have already been hard and then hearing they might stay that way for a while. I don’t think your time is being wasted though, even if it feels like it. Some people just don’t have that easy, carefree start, but it doesn’t mean things can’t shift later in a really meaningful way. You’re allowed to want more now, and you’re not broken for feeling this way. I really do think your story’s still unfolding, even if this part of it is rough ♥
Good things take time, nona. I know that's an overused saying, but I believe a great future is headed for you!

No. 585708

Anyone with 7th house libra moon (swati)? Does this mean im supposed to be with a libra man? This is sickening. The sun is debilitated there and I have an 1st house aries sun

No. 585714

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Why are my love life and career failures

No. 585716

>>508594
WOW this is dead on accurate!! especially when it comes to my personality and career; i am currently majoring in social work! its so fascinating how much this resonates with me, your perspective on my future reassures me lot too since that is something that brings me a lot of anxiety. thank you for the reading, i appreciate you very much!!

No. 585718

>>572732
I got a funny feeling when reading your chart, not sure why. I can't tell if im reading it correctly so if another astrology nona wants to put their two cents in, please do. You’re in a weird in-between space right now, and it’s probably frustrating as hell. You’re carrying a lot emotionally, even stuff that’s not yours moon in Pisces, and it’s making everything feel heavier. You’ve probably had a tough time getting into a routine or feeling like you’re on top of your shit chiron in the 6th, saturn in the 2nd, and that’s not because you’re lazy, it’s because you’re learning how to work in a way that actually fits you, not just what everyone expects. Career wise, you’re not meant to play it safe. You’ve got a Midheaven in Sagittarius, which means long term, you’ll do best in something that feels free, impactful, or even a little unconventional such as teaching, creating, working with people etc. Whatever lets you move and speak your truth. Right now, it’s not about having the perfect plan, it’s about taking one clear step at a time and not second guessing every move just because the end goal isn’t fully mapped out.


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No. 482587[Reply]

It's time to revive my favorite /g/ thread after seven months. Post unusual and nitpicky things that turn you off of a person.

Previous
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No. 584132

>>584071
>>584077
Kek it depends, I should've been more clear. Those vocal fry giggles that they do to come off hot and dominant are cringe. But the natural ones are fine and cute.

No. 584660

A man that falls often in love

No. 585653

uncircumcised cocks

No. 585655

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>>485638
He looks like an average strongman contestant.

No. 585681

>>585653
jude(bait)


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No. 366897[Reply]

A place for Asian women to chat, vent, offer advice, discuss Asian culture.
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No. 581674

>>581301
Yeah I had and still have this every time I get a pimple. My American derms all just prescribed azelaic acid and said to give it time but my doctor back home said laser is the only thing that helps because if it doesn’t fade within the first three months then it’s like the capillaries broke and healed in that shape. You can try the at home ipl devices if in office is out of the question

No. 581687

>>581354
Jungle fever sounds so barbaric and cruel, comparing people to animals. Glad it's severely outdated.

>>581632
Asian beauty standards revolve around self hatred

No. 585633

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southeast asian nonnies, esp who are indonesian, malaysian, laotian cambodian thai etc, how has been your experiences with, and relating to east asians and eastern Asian culture? I'd really appreciate if any sea nonnies could answer these questions:
>in a group, community or setting that is predominately east asian (like a Korean or Japanese supermarket or bookstore), do you feel like you are treated similarly to how the other east asians are treated,or do you feel like you are treated as a foreigner?
>do you find it easier to find east asian friends in comparison to friends from other cultures/races?
>if you are learning an east Asian language, how has it been speaking that language with native speakers? do they notice that you aren't a native speaker? do you feel like they assume you are east Asian because you're able to speak that language?
>do you adhere to east Asian beauty standards? do you purchase a lot of kbeauty goods or are influenced by Japanese beauty and fashion trends?
>do you feel like you feel more represented by, or resonate more to east asian media, food, or general culture than your own culture?
>when non-asians find out that you are south east asian and not east asian, how do you feel?
>have you went by an east Asian name online before? if so, do you feel like you were seen as east asian, and how did that make you feel?
>do you feel embarrassed by your own culture because it is less recognizable or popular as east Asian culture is to the west?
>how popular and influential is east Asian culture in your culture's home country?
>how has the rise in east asian popular culture in the last ten years influenced how you are perceived by non-asians? do you feel like you have this standard of east asian beauty or familiarity with east asian culture that you have to live up to? do you feel fetishized?
>do you have a preference for east asian partners in comparison to southeast asian partners? do you prefer east asian partners to partners of non-asian races?
>if you have had an east Asian partner, have their family been accepting of your culturalPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 585660

>>585633
It’s embarrassing to be attracted to Japanese men. I also hate my little cousins liking korean men

No. 585671

>>585633
I'm Viet, so I always feel like this weird middle ground between East Asian and SEA. Culturally I feel a lot more kinship with East Asian culture over SEA since we're part of the Sinosphere and more heavily influenced by China compared to other SEA cultures, but since Vietnam isn't actually in East Asia, and aside from the war don't have the same global intrigue and soft power since we're not as wealthy, it kinda feels like a neglected middle child type of thing, if that makes sense.

The other thing is that I'm also Canadian, so East and Southeast Asians here are treated a lot more monolithic. I grew up in an area where the Asian population is mostly Chinese and Vietnamese, so that probably also adds to the feeling of being culturally closer to East Asians than Southeast Asians, since us second gens always stuck together and we were always associated with each other. So even before East Asia became trendy amongst Westerners, I'm already used to being associated as East Asian even though I'm not actually.


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