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No. 48533[Reply]

Please feel free to vent or ask for advice in this thread pertaining to sexual abuse or harassment, etc



I'm looking for advice on how to build a healthy sexual relationship with my partner after my bad past. We've been married two years and he's fantastic. But my libido is very low and I have a feeling it might be tied to poor sexual relationships I'd had before. Starting at 8 years old and then on out. I'm not really bothered by the past but I think my mind is instantly associating sex with bad times, which shouldn't be the case since my husband is lovely. But my brain instantly is telling me that I dont want to do this or that its just a hassle. Often times when we begin fooling around I get stomach aches that will go away basically instantly when we stop, like he can tell I'm not in the mood so we wont continue. I never thought much of it, I always thought it was just something I ate. But today I figured out maybe it could be anxiety related.

I just want to be able to have a normal sex life with him where we can fool around and have fun, but I feel so bad for having something -wrong- with me. If anons have any advice i'd love to hear. I'm too poor for a therapist and I've scoured the internet for advice as well
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No. 570442

>>568556
mine don't frame me as an abuser but they rewrite what happened to be more consensual or that he could have been genuinely mistaken in thinking I was interested.

Spiking is over taking date rape as the term but I know most people are still going to think of date rape and think I was actually there on a date with him.

No. 570443

>>570341
In most cases it goes away eventually after healing internally but I personally would recommend checking for trigger warnings before watching or reading something for the time being. You can limit your media consumption only to things that do not trigger you and it's not wrong or bad, you have the right to do that. Exposing yourself to content that agitates you is like picking a scab, it really does not help heal.

>how are you supposed to forget when there are reminders everywhere
Remember that you have a choice to not watch this content. I personally avoided all fiction from the following horror, thriller and crime adjacent and family drama with abuse etc. for about three years.

No. 570846

>>570443
>it will go away eventually after healing internally
The problem is that I split/buried it away for a long time to survive and it instead made me extremely fragile, neurotic, and unable to thrive no matter what I did and i internalized and blamed myself. When I finally stopped repressing I was filled with an unexplainable anger, I remember more every month it feels like (no false or half memories, just an entire repressed childhood). I deliberately forced myself to not be aware of how horribly I was treated as a child and instead it made me blame and punish myself. Now I have no idea what to do with all of the anger. I feel like I'm too old to feel this way, but I don't know how to put it down.

No. 571241

>>570846
>I have no idea what to do with all of the anger
This is completely normal. Try boxing lessons or similar. It will help you get out the anger and it will make you feel stronger, like you can defend yourself now. Gaining new experiences that are the opposite of what traumatized you are extremely healing!

No. 572174

>>571241
Lol I have no desire to physically hit anything or use any sort of force that harkens to the mental picture of violence for me but thank you for the suggestion


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No. 308124[Reply]

A thread for the discussion of robots and robot husbandos.

Will realistic robot husbandos ever become available in our lifetimes? Would you marry one?
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No. 571233

>>571125
What grace? She's a grown woman acting like a little girl

No. 571242

Does anyone remember the farmer who posted about having a crush on Drix? I was watching videos from one of my favorite youtubers and she mentioned about him being one of her "hear-me-out" characters and I got so excited but I don't remember where that farmer posted. Drixfag, you are not alone! It's at 18:55 she brings up Drix.

No. 571358

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>>571242
>Drixfag
She's so precious. I don't know if she's still here but here's the post: >>127506
She also mentioned Drix having a robodick in her fantasies kek >>127532

No. 571622

>>571358
this was five years ago? fuck i thought that post was like a year ago. thank you nonny you are an angel (and so is Drixfag ofc).

No. 571757

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>>571358
>5 years ago
Time flies by.. It feels like I made that wonky Drixfag cap just yesterday Ily Drixfag. Hope she stays winning wherever she is now.


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No. 413813[Reply]

Post your favorite examples of men who have aged like milk or ‘hit the wall’.

Discuss the “men age like wine, women age like milk” cope meme, common amongst undesirable men

Old thread >>>/g/152993
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No. 571149

>>568018
That's just what happens to musicians. They get in drugs, alcohol, they don't sleep or eat properly either.
>>568357
Agree. He's hideous and his lyrics about sleeping with tons of women amuse me because nobody would fuck him if he wasn't rich and famous. Such an ugly ass scrote

No. 571340

>>571149
I like Bella Hadid but there's quite literally nothing in that woman's head, same for Selena so it isn't surprising that the only attractive women who've dated him did so because theyre the most likely to fall for the facade of male musicians

No. 571342

>>570468
Bro looks like a pug in a shake and go I hate him so much

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No. 571684

>>571678
Reminder this moid is 28.


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No. 220643[Reply]

A thread for the loners here (all of us). Venting, how you deal with it, how you spend your time etc.
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No. 562714

>>559963
Same here. Sometimes I wish I was a narcissist or something. At least going out and seeking attention might get me some better opportunities or offers in life. After all, to get jobs or sponsors or remembered for events you gotta get out there.

No. 562890

I am this close to downloading one of those ai chatbot apps and coping my pathetic love life with it.

No. 569916

I've become this living parody like these kind of scrotes who say they want to date some cashier because it turns out that's the only human interaction left in their daily lives
whenever I step outside I come across so many seemingly well adjusted, attractive people, regardless of gender, and I start fantasizing about holding a conversation, however mundane, with them
I think these delusional virtual ai best friend rplays are finally getting to me, somehow pushing me to be more social, makes me kind of nostalgic even
I wish I could just stay home all the time and not have to deal with those conflicting feelings anymore

No. 570424

Anyone have chronic boredom as a co-symptom? It definitely goes hand in hand for me, the anhedonia.

No. 571277

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I just want a friend. I feel like I'm too picky or not putting myself out enough, but where am I even supposed to start? Sometimes I'm okay with being alone, but other times I feel heavy and filled with dread and fear. I miss who I was, but I can't look back. I have to get better, I have to get more fearless and fun, now I'm just boring and needy. I would still want to be my friend though…I wouldn't mind having someone like me to share my time with, and maybe that's why I feel okay sometimes. Loneliness can be kinda comforting, I have nothing to lose, no one to impress.


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No. 107505[Reply]

This is a thread for crochet and knitting, and other yarn-related crafts.

Anyone starting any new projects or completing old ones? Share some patterns!
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No. 570441

>>518006
Were we in the same server? It imploded because some retard snitched and I miss it… I liked having a group of women to talk with about knitting and sewing. I hope the snitch trips and knocks out their front teeth, so all their secrets leak out their jaw.

No. 570559

>>570441
I saw all of that Reddit moral panic over sewing pattern sharing, they're all stupid as hell kek. I used to be in a Telegram for sewing patterns which also got nuked. Sad. Whoever snitched sucks major ass. I also don't understand PinDIY at all, it gives me a headache to try to use

No. 571147

>>570441
The pattern sharing discord that required you to upload 3 patterns as verificcation? So that's what happened to it. I thought I was kicked out for being inactive, should've downloaded more patterns.

Did someone start a new server yet?

No. 571160

>>561598
Jump rings for hoops. For the studs you can make little dots with hot glue.

No. 571866

>>571147
I was told they were making a new server but it seems like it never happened or they had a pretty small list of people they were going to invite back. Honestly being there actually encouraged me to buy patterns because I was excited to have other women to share with and learn about knitting. The setup was really good and the bot was so helpful. I don't get why some retard would snitch, the designers not gonna uwu love you forever, fucking idiot. I'm so antisocial that I wouldn't have nuked the server for it, but I get why they did. And I'm too retarded to understand pindiy kek


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No. 106527[Reply]

Ask questions, post cute nail art and polish swatches, discus trends, techniques, products, professional services, etc.

What's on your nails right now, farmers?
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No. 535294

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>>525795
I've just received my first order of Cirque Colors and WOW the hype is totally justified. Haven't tried the jellies yet but I'm wearing Groove Thing and it's such a pretty green iridescent insect shade irl. Any colors in particular you'd recommend?

No. 535342

Does anyone do Gel X? Do you like it? I'm thinking of buying my own kit since getting nails done are so much money now.

No. 552671

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I really don't get what's a natural nail shape supposed to be, I always end up trimming the edges because that's the only way not to have them cracking all the time, but apparently that's not recommended either…

No. 552680

>>552671
This actually makes them structurally weaker

Look at your fingers with the tips facing your eyes. See how your nails are C-shaped from that angle? It's harder for a surface that's curled at the edges like that to break off because it's harder to bend in the direction of the opposite axis (idk how else to describe this verbally…)

When you trim them at the edges, you remove the part that's stopping the tip from bending forward/backward so it gets wear and tear faster as you're using it (typing, scratching at things etc.)

It's better to just file down the edges when you notice scratches and eat lots of eggs, fish and dark leafy greens so your body can build better keratin

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Do you like these? At the moment only medics and crazies are enjoying these ones


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No. 519468[Reply]

Last Thread: >>418074

Thread for:
>dommes
>femdom images and media
>femdom fantasies
>female subs interested in women
>advice and stories

Some things to get us started:
>What are your main kinks?
>What is your ideal sub like?
>What experiences have you had?
>What advice do you have for new dommes?
>Where to find subs? How to avoid unhealthy ones?
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No. 570965

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>>570963
Samefag, i love tasteful femdom art, we need more pretty subtle depictions of yielding men

No. 570969

>>570965
>>570963
Oh these are beautiful nona. Artist name please?

No. 570972

>>570857
Platonically bullying moids, yes.

No. 571064

>>570969
Ryoko Kimura!
https://ryokokimura.com/index.html
>>571014
You're welcome

No. 573158

Anyone notice how no one ever says "the sub is really the one with all the power" in the context of femdom?


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No. 85292[Reply]

Let's talk about breasts.
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No. 568303

>>568158
I don't think it's a medical condition, but anons here keep trying to deny clearly saggy breasts aren't saggy because "mine are super long grandma tits"
>>568159
That's because the first picture posted was arching her back. Every big boobed girl knows that's a go to if you want your boobs to look perky. When she's relaxed/in normal positions her nipple is literally at the bottom, that's sag, and that's perfectly fine she still looks great, just has saggy breasts

No. 568358

Absolutely embarrassing to see you all sperging about Alexandria Dadarios boobs

No. 570776

When I slouch a little my boobs hang below my bellybutton, I feel so insecure. I'm only in my early twenties and I've never yoyo'd, I've remained healthy to slightly underweight at most. I really want to get a reduction in my 30s. Sometimes I wonder if my sedentary lifestyle is a part of it, I should take up strenght training. My nipples are pretty numb too.

No. 570828

>>570776
You can look up chest exercises and stretches for it, but a lot of it just comes down to genetics, elasticity, and your diet and exercise habits during puberty. If you've ever been a smoker and you also have poor elasticity, it can destroy your elastin. It varies person to person. My advice to women I've known who've told me they had self esteem issues due to their elasticity in the past was always to cut nicotine completely, start using castor oil on their breasts, and microneedle if they can tolerate. When I got worried about fast growth I pre-microneedled (this was many years ago) and then did lactic acid peels myself and it worked really well, had no problems. If I could go back with the knowledge I have now, I would use castor oil and a dermapen as well as retinol on my upper chest, probably would've saved the pain from lactic acid. If you're prone to inflammation I would watch tutorials to watch out for lymph nodes but microneedling your chest/upper breasts is an underrated solution if you only have mild to moderate insecurity. It's definitely worth adding to your routine if you aren't afraid of it.

No. 570866

>>570776
maybe you just have a short torso


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No. 442232[Reply]

post here if you have a passion for fashion

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Pic: Dior FW 2006
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No. 565213

>>565107
Japan makes cute shoes that are comfy to walk in, since every one walks there and are also concerned with presentation

also stuff like waterproof loafers and heels

No. 566009

>>565160
>>565162
I've liked them for around ten years. I just don't join in conversations where people bitch about them because they think they look weird but someone was asking more generally this time instead. So maybe you considered the agreement more broad than it actually was. third time's the charm

No. 566176

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>>564627
Not sure how strict your uniform code is, but you can experiment with layering pieces under/over your polo or bottoms. Try different textures, like lace or frills, or even patterns to contrast with the black. Tying a cardigan/scarf over your shoulder/neck, or even waist could also help break the monotony of the black on black

No. 569355

Does anyone know of any brands that make menswear for women? Not women's pantsuits and blazers, but men's style suiting, just adapted to fit a female body… it's different.
The only one I know is Kirrin Finch. I get that I'm being a picky sperg here but I kinda hate the catering towards "transmascs" and "non-binaries" and don't feel great paying brands who donate to those "charities" that "help" chop women. Is it asking too much for a brand that's openly for WOMEN?

No. 570542

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Cath Kidston pyjamas are sooo cute but too damn expensive, I can't pay 100 euro for a pyjama reeeeee


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No. 570474 [Reply]

Ted K's understudy edition

ITT: Post pictures, new developments and conversation about Luigi

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>>451665
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>>467757
Post too long. Click here to view the full text.(ai outside of containment)
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No. 572649

>>572638
I know, he looks meh to me. Just a moid who gets elevated just because he has a fuckboy neck tattoo. He’s just a machine gun kelly type, I’m not seeing what they’re seeing in him.

No. 572650

>>572639
Why do they do that? They did that with Tracy and now they're doing it with Mike. "Oh Mike was talking about you!" It's so odd to me.

No. 572651

>>572648
Luigi in October

No. 572652

>>572646
They like him because he's hot not because he printed out ghost guns. Just like Luigi is hot besides the murder. We have to suck their dicks, nonie, it's what you do when a guy is hot.

No. 572656

>>572652
I'm loyal to Luigi. I only want to suck his dick and his dick alone


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