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No. 380577[Reply]

A thread for all nonas of Middle Eastern, Arab or North African ethnicity to discuss topics pertaining to being a MENA woman. A place to chat, vent, share, ask and give advice or discuss problems pertaining to being a MENA woman. All religions and nationalities welcome to post, as long as you are of MENA ethnicity.
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No. 443984

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Libya’s Ministry of Interior has made hijab mandatory for women, stating that women are not allowed to leave the house without a male guardian, nor should they wear makeup or dress in a way that attracts attention when outside.
Additionally, men have been instructed to avoid unnecessary mixing with women. The ministry also emphasized that if anyone seeks freedom in the form of immorality or nudity, they should go to Europe.

No. 443985

>>443984
Also, Libyans (and other MENA) seem to be overwhelmingly approving of this from what I saw.

No. 444122

>>443984
>go to europe if you want freedom
>floods europe with a bunch of muslim radicals seeking to rape european women snd turn it into another muslim shithole

No. 444221

>>444122
All the Euros need to do is exclusively let in females

No. 444319

>>426950
>I fucking hate it when our men turn the gene pool into a swamp by breeding with poor slavs
I don't use this word often but… what in the pick me is this. I genuinely just feel sorry for these women because a lot of the time there's control and abuse going on (from what i've seen). How can you look at an arab moid with a woman from a slightly less misogynistic culture and be irritated by the woman..?
t. slav woman appreciator
>gene pool
>swamp
If anything we need more mixing to offset the effects of prolonged cousin marriage kek



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No. 189175[Reply]

What is your experience with body dysmorphia/hating how you look in general? How to cope?
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No. 441288

>>441276
>thinking 20 is an anachan bmi
kek

No. 444168

I've been told i'm pretty a lot but I am convinced it means nothing.I get asked if I model often, which you'd think is a compliment but my mind still tells me its just because i'm tall or because they think I am androgynous/masculine/unique looking. Had a lady go into detail about how there are two different types of pretty, model pretty and regular pretty, and apparently i fit into the former. Maybe I want to be regular pretty so men would like me more. I feel like my height intimidates them even though im only 5'8. Im also shaped like a board with nonexistent tits and ass. I had horrible acne as a teen and just finished a round with accutane which i guess improved my skin but threw me into horrific depression. Also recently got ghosted by a guy who is 6'7 & I was kinda hoping would like that I was tall. I guess i'll never know because he clearly didn't like me enough to respond after meeting twice. Anyways that paired with just getting out of an incredibly unhealthy 2.5 year relationship, I find a new flaw on me everyday. I can't cope. Im only 20 and feel dead inside, like a total failure.

No. 444171

If you think you’re ugly, why don’t you just imagine yourself as someone else? In my own mind, I look like young Brooke Shields

No. 444220

>>444168
>I want men to like me more
how did you type all this out and not get embarrassed(infight bait)

No. 444734

I wish I could give my younger self a hug, and tell her how cute she is. Body dysmorphia is a mind fuck. I have no clue what I really look like, until I see old photos of myself and think about how much I hated myself.
I’ve had a sob story of a childhood, was fucked with, grew up, and now i look like what i wanted to look like, but still see a fat, broad shouldered, dirty looking, dressed dumb woman. I literally can’t stand to leave the house unless it’s necessary because in my head, everyone is laughing at me, I take up too much room, I’m bothering people, yada yada ya. Idk if it has anything to do with the way I grew up. I wish I could love myself, and be sure of myself and confident, I’ve watched videos. I don’t have anyone that I really talk to on a deep level to give me fresh eyes on this (if that’s the correct verbiage) but my indecisiveness, my inability to confidently answer questions or make decisions without fear of something happening, or the fear of things going too good, that I worry I fucked something up is actually ruining my life. I guess it’s like walking around with a cloud of shame that you can’t shake off, but I’ve had this for YEARS. I wouldn’t wish this upon my worst enemy. I can’t make meaningful connections with anyone it sucks



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No. 393926[Reply]

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No. 444119

>>444086
i'm sorry for you loss nonna. i've been there and i understand completely. maybe there is something else you can do to treat yourself that will give you a bit of a boost but also won't be as overwhelming as going to a salon. i definitely think you deserve to do something fun for yourself as a pick-me-up.

No. 444160

>>444119
Thank you for understanding and for your helpful reply. Maybe some shopping would feel better than going to the salon, without spending a crazy amount obv.

No. 444161

>>444086
I get it with agoraphobia. My life was at a standstill years ago, just going out anywhere was a small feat in itself back then. Going to a salon should've been a small step ahead given how bad I was att but salon chit chat.. was like shining a spotlight on the overall state of my life. Listing through the many things I didn't have in my life and having me one by one admit I had nothing going on, nothing. Not their fault, a mix of my circumstances, my sensitivity around it, them not knowing what's up and some rusty social skills on my end. My life has turned around so much since then, I still have salon dread when I tick half those talking point boxes now?

You're not the first anon to bring up agoraphobia and salon chat being dreaded. I'd lean towards a diff pick me up activity. Maybe by now it's not considered that strange to ask for a quiet appt while you're booking? (agoraphobia can't be the only condition where people might ask for that) But I'd prob pick something else.

No. 444178

>>444068
If she's dependent on it it's alcoholism.

No. 444270

>>444161
Thats exactly it, I can relate so much. Esp the one by one thing, where they eventually figure out Im just a loser basically. Not only are hairstylists usually extroverted, they almost always have some family or friends birthday wedding etc events planned, so they probably find me even more weird for not having anything going on with anyone. Plus I dont keep up with movies or tv, another topic usually mentioned. So yeah maybe for now Ill avoid the salon. Thats awesome to hear that your life has turned around, youve given me hope.

One time I got my hair done near new years. Big mistake lol. I was actually having a great time, until near the end when the hair dresser asked, "Any fun NYE events? No? Nothing at all? Aww just phone up some friends and hang out!" It was one of the most crushing feelings ever, not faulting the hairdresser or anything.

Might as well share another salon story. One time the salon wanted to schedule me with someone else, who happened to be a moid. I wanted a particular other hairdresser, so I refused him and requested the one I wanted. So at my appointment, the moid hairdresser comes up, chats with my hairdresser, holding his scissors near my face, and asking her questions about the length of the blades. Like he was subtly trying to make me feel threatened or uncomfortable because I dared reject him. I was so caught off guard and shy, that I didnt say anything. Ugh. Moids. Other than that, its usually been nice to get my hair done.



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No. 176536[Reply]

if you have pcos how do you deal with the pain?my pcos is bad I am stuck in bed today with a fucking heating pad and a cat snoring on my head as I am typing this. The pain is bad enough that I have to take a pain pill and even then it only just dulls it.
Do any of you anons have pcos that makes your periods so bad you have to literally take presciption grade pain killers to not feel pain? I mean my doctors are only throwing pain medications at it instead of removing the cyst off my ovary and my insurance doesn't cover birth control, so pretty much fucked.
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No. 439255

>>438952
>now I'm a believer that "PCOS" is a pretty lousy name for a bunch of several poorly understood, poorly related metabolic problems.

I agree. I thought being diagnosed with PCOS years ago would be an eye-opener and have doctors be able to help me, but my experience trying to navigate this it's more of an umbrella term. (I'm American though and you know how the healthcare is here, so YMMV.)

>>439190
>Women's health is so vastly understudied so they create this syndrome of which you have to have 3 or whatever symptoms to meet the criteria. So if you have thinning head hair, facial hair and no periods you have PCOS but a different woman has insulin resistance, super long periods and stubborn weight she can't shift has the same syndrome?

This is something that confused me too. When I was diagnosed, I was solely offered birth control to fix my testosterone/estrogen levels, even though my medical record shows I have regular periods and even though I'm strictly childfree, I could easily have a child if I wanted to. I just have trouble losing weight, which is what I was seeing a doctor for. I was hoping that knowing I have PCOS I could be prescribed something for insulin or have different tests done, but no. No prescription for anything but birth control.

No. 439605

The beard… it thickens.

No. 442170

>>439255
OP of >>438952 here, they put me on birth control too, not even to correct my high T but just to make sure I had more regular i.e shorter cycles. It doesn't benefit me at all to have periods more often so I stopped. Sorry to hear they didn't do shit for you besides a pointless prescription, I hope you can tail off if you think you don't need it, I think that basically doing HRT at our ages is a bit of a risk if we're not sure it's actually treating anything.

No. 444057

I will never look cute or even normal I have the largest eyebrows on anyone I've ever seen man or woman they take up half my forehead. I can wear a mask for the rest of my face but eyebrows can't even be lasered. Fml

No. 444089

Why the fuck do hormonal cysts exist, I fucking hate having to do salt baths for the cysts that show up on my vag and I hate that I can’t move or run without accidentally popping a cyst on my ovaries. I haven’t had them for almost a year but now they’re all coming back and it hurts to sit down



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No. 444025[Reply]

i cant afford new clothes, would like to set up a capsule wardrobe, but hate basics. and i prefer one-pieces.
then again, things im attracted to, dont combine well, without them.

any cap-ward experienced girls here, that can help out with vids, articles and experiences?(unintegrated newfag thread)

No. 444026

Use the fashion thread + need more information + use, less, commas

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>>444026
i think its my first time or long time no post thread. where do i find the fashion thread you recommend, there are many.

information:
i prefer dresses over two pieces, longer silhouettes, no particular events id like to restrict fashion for. sensual, dark, delicate pieces, avant garde ones, sci-fi inspired… fashion really.
sorry for the commas.
thank you for ur reply

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No. 355199[Reply]

A home to post your nerdy crushes here. Whether he just wears nerdy glasses, or if has nerdy hobbies, or is just, a plain nerd.

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No. 443863

>>443853
Thank fuck I'm not the only one. Him in this movie is 100% my type but I like to pretend he doesn't exist outside of the movie.

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>>443853
What an underutilized look for Alec Baldwin. People always peg him as this gruff Don Draper kind of guy but I never knew he was capable of pulling off a dorky look.

No. 443903

>>443899
He was only thin in 2 movies, Beetlejuice and Married to the Mob.

No. 443992

>>443903
Hunt for Red October and Glengarry Glen Ross too but those two are far superior.

No. 444033

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>>443853
>>443899
i had no idea this was alec baldwin and my world just shattered



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No. 271193[Reply]

I find it really confusing when nonnas post in the relationship advice thread as if they were having real relationship and then it turns out it's just some dude on discord they are talking to. Usually this information is not divulged until much later.

I propose we have two threads, one for real relationships and one for online relationships. Talk about your discord-kitten problems in this thread and get help from other discord-kittens. Leave the relationship advice thread for people who actually have to deal with moids face to face.
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No. 397801

>>390428
Where did you meet your Australian bf Nona? How did you guys get together? Also could you tell what kind of pros/cons he had? I'm just really curious

No. 397802

Are there any places where you can find a good man to e-date? Not one with no standards, though.

No. 397803

>>396589
>reads this post
>hides thread

No. 397944

>>396589
Pee on it for him to like it for sure

No. 444030

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You know those "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" groups on Facebook? Wish there was a server for the exact same purpose.



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No. 414433[Reply]

Since a lot of posts in the relationship advice thread are concerning their bf's porn habits, I thought I'd make a spinoff of the subreddit LAP: a support thread for nonas who have dealt with or are currently dealing with a bf/husband who is a porn user/addict.

Feel free to vent, ask other nonas for advice or advise others, etc.

Please keep it respectful and avoid raging at others, as it's a sensitive and all too common problem for many modern women.
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No. 443901

>>443882
I'm going to kill myself.
>>443884
I will. I'm tired honestly.

No. 443916

>>443901
Dont kill yourself, I meant that as in you can surely do better than a man with zero sexual disipline

No. 444717

>>443916
I left. ♥

No. 445464

A few hours ago I broke up with my porn addicted boyfriend. Its been a thing for a few months now that has bothered me and I have vented here previously.
Over this past weekend I was groped at a party and my now ex was aware of it and we handled it the best we could at the time because I chose not to let it get to me. Im still coming to terms with that happening. The next night while my ex was asleep, I decided to check his phone and found out that during the time that I feel asleep after that party, that he was watching porn. Spent today thinking over things and eventually sat down and told him what I saw in his phone and how fucked up it is and that I want to break up. Ofc he responded with "I have urges" and even tried to argue about the time of his search history lining up with when I was asleep after getting groped. Ofc he tried to start talking about how he couldn't believe I went thru his phone and I just shut that shit down and told him to get his stuff and leave.
I am upset because I did have hope that I could help him get over his addiction at some point in the near future. I did and still love him unfortunately but I refuse to let myself continue in a relationship with someone who lacks morals that severely. Please take my story and remember how sick these men are that even when something traumatic happens to you, that they will always prioritize porn and their sexual urges. If you are currently in a relationship with a porn addict, this will and probably already happen to you. Please think really hard before trying to help these fucked up individuals to try and save your relationship because you may have a glimmer of faith that they can get sober.



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No. 248328[Reply]

The good, the bad, the ugly. Share your experiences here, what are the best apps to use, your success stories, cringeist interactions, horror, etc.

Previously >>>/g/82463
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No. 443736

>>443720
>as long as you're withholding a final step of the relationship that he wants to get to in order to incentivize him treating you nicely, then you are removing that incentive once you're no longer withholding, which is a bad foundation for a lifelong relationship
But that's the exact opposite of what's really happening. Most moids are only in the relationship for the sex. If you wait until marriage, you filter out the moids who only wanted to use you for sex, and men who genuinely love you will wait. The point isn't to make a bad moid better, it's to dissuade a bad moid from being with you to begin with.
>>443734
>they're just not quality men.
Chaste men who save themselves for marriage are almost certainly better than sluts who have pumped and dumped dozens of women

No. 443739

>>443736
>If you wait until marriage, you filter out the moids who only wanted to use you for sex, and men who genuinely love you will wait. The point isn't to make a bad moid better, it's to dissuade a bad moid from being with you to begin with.
I understand that this is the logic behind your theory but I am telling you that in real life, it doesn't work out this way. I don't mean that no-sex-til-marriage guys are creepy and dangerous in theory, I mean that they are creepy and dangerous in practice.
>Chaste men who save themselves for marriage are almost certainly better than sluts who have pumped and dumped dozens of women
the vast majority of men fall between these two categories of people, though, and that includes men who are virgins who are waiting to have sex for the first time in a meaningful, loving relationship, as well as men who have had one or two serious relationships that didn't work out and have only ever had sex with women they loved and respected and had very serious intentions toward.

No. 443748

>>443739
>they are creepy and dangerous in practice
How many irl men have you met who wanted to wait until marriage?
And I'm not saying all men who want to wait until marriage are worthy, I'm saying only men who want to wait until marriage are worthy. It's a necessary but not a sufficient condition.
While I agree that most waiting until marriage moids are awful, I believe an even higher percentage of premarital sex moids are that.

No. 443751

>>443748
and I'm saying that the vast majority of them are creepy little freaks (but not always, best case scenario is that they just have microdicks and are terrified to end up with someone who's experienced bigger) because the difference between waiting for love and waiting for marriage is the difference between being a romantic and being a walking red flag. you go ahead and marry one though, I'll hope it works out for you but idgaf what you do ultimately, it's very typical for women who have bought into a romanticized notion of how relationships work to be immune to advice about how trad life decisions are actually harmful so that's not who I'm typing this up for.

No. 443756

>>443751
>the vast majority of them are creepy little freaks
As oppose to normalfag moids, who are generally saints and angels.
I think you're just jealous of me because you'll never have a pure one-man-one-woman romance and love. Like Aesop's tailless fox tempting others into amputation, you're trying to make me repeat your faults.(bait)



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No. 81513[Reply]

What are the pros and cons of being short/tall?
Are you happy with your height or do you wish you could change it?
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No. 443389

>>443388

The tallest woman currently alive is Sun Fang, who is 7'3''. Zhang Ziyu is also 7'3''. Siddiqa Parveen - who was 7'8'' - died earlier this year at the age of 36.

No. 443448

I actually love the cropped tops trend as a short girl because they just fit like regular tops on me. I need to stock up on a few before the trend dies out so that I won't have to go back to wearing regular length tops that look wrong and frumpy on me.

No. 443505

In case anyone was wondering, the all-time record for women is 8'6.75'': https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trijntje_Keever

No. 443512

>>443368
I actually think this is super based.

No. 443731

I realise I wouldn't fit much on my tiny bed if I was taller kek



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