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No. 394891[Reply]

A thread for butch lovers, by butch lovers.

>Post images of butches you find cute please

>Opinion on the terms butch? Masc?
>Vent for troonism within the community?
>History with butches or current crushes?
>Butch Lesbian Scene?
>Media with butches?
>Are you butch4butch, butch4femme, or butch4both?
>Are you stone, switch, or a bottom?
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No. 396919

If you can afford it, consider looking into designer children's footwear. They tend to have more on the formal side of things. Look secondhand too. Doc Martens have unisex styles in smaller sizes and are also abundant secondhand.

No. 397036

This is a shot in the dark, but any other mums in here? Motherhood has been the most rewarding chapter of my life so far, no doubt about it. But doing this as a butch? Hoo boy, straight people really do be testing my patience with this shit.

No. 397041

I hope this is the right place to ask, but as a femme, how can I let butches know I’m into them, also.. where to meet butches? I’ve tried dating apps and it’s so rare to meet butches on there/ or they’re butch4butch.

No. 398928

Has anyone had the experience of being turned down for a job because of the way you dress? I'm looking for a new job right now and over the phone all is well and fine but the second I get to the interview irl/cam it's like a switch flipped.
It's not like I dress inappropriate or look like a bum, I know how to look like a corpo, but I feel like ever since I ditched heavier "feminine" makeup people have a more negative reaction.

No. 398939

Yep. I had all the skills needed to head up a whole new department for this company. I turned up to the interview in a Saville Row suit and with a detailed five-year plan but got told it would never work with an "untraditional female" at the helm as most of the clients in this type of business are male. I was fortunate enough to set up my own company in the end, but I sympathise. It's brutal out there, even the blue collar jobs I've had in the past have been shitty about how I dress. The only time my looks benefitted me was when I worked as a bouncer, my manager told it was great how "unapproachable" I looked.

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No. 311901[Reply]

This thread is for images of women (can be fictional too) who look a lot like males that you'd fuck.
It's not about butches, it's about women who basically look a lot like males that makes you not mind/forget that they're actually females.
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No. 398701

what is this twitterfag reply… stop

No. 398703

Can’t tell if botched nose job and plastic surgery or just horrifically intense contouring.

No. 398708

ayrt. She's a chinese coser so the answer is a combination of both, probably.

Still, would.

No. 398718

she looks like what oli london thinks he looks like

No. 398891

No she's right. That being said it still fits the thread since she's a woman who looks like a male. I just wouldn't personally want to fuck a gay-looking male.

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No. 208345[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about the fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your lolita friendships. Ex lolitas and newbies are welcomed too. Etc.
For drama, check out the tread on /w/: >>>/w/143376
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No. 397452

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This OP that BTSSB just released is super cute. I would definitely get it if I wasn't still trying to save money.

No. 398589

My deepest apologies nona your print was previously owned by a man

No. 398593

Btssb can always be trusted to come out with good shit, this is gorgous!

No. 398595

this is gorgeous, BTSSB my beloved… those lacy neck ties!! I keep telling myself I'm trying to move my wardrobe in a more gothic direction because it's what I feel more comfortable in but baby has a chokehold on my wallet

No. 398731

NTA but I don't think it's out of the question that the owner could have been a particularly gross woman. I've seen plenty and a lot of them are weebs into anything from Japan, which unfortunately often includes lolita fashion
Baby has been putting out quite a few expensive OTT dresses that I don't like at all, but when they actually stick to the basics they put out some fantastic stuff. I like that they still re-release their old stuff since I'm very partial to old school lolita

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No. 78523[Reply]

>Think you have a great guy freind.
>later reveals that he wants a romantic relationship.
>basically just spoke to you so he could fuck your pussy.
>When you decline he never speaks to you again.

I have lost contact with most of the guys who I thought were genuinely my friends this way.

This is the worst sort of betrayal. I've come to find that a lot of women think they have male friends when, in reality, there is always an ulterior motive.

Do you think there is even a point in making friends with men?

Do you think men and women can be friends?
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No. 398531

I really should have..
He did say thank you and that it was nice how we could hang out and do different things

No. 398537

>He did say thank you and that it was nice how we could hang out and do different things
Typical moid behaviour, he takes advantage of your kindness then sits on his ass playing video games the entire time and ignores you. What a dick, sorry nona

No. 398546

Thank you
Hopefully I’ll grow a spine and find better friends soon

No. 398569

>I have a chef over for dinner
Wow he implied you were hired help, that is very rude. I would have snuck out.

No. 398967

Lol why are you so pathetic? grow a spine

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No. 180491[Reply]

A thread for anons who sew. Feel free to discuss anything related to sewing, ask for help and advice or show off your projects!
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No. 398183

i'd choose the miniskirt over the sack with elastic waistband as it has darts and a zipper closure and learing how to sew them opens for you possibily of sewing tops and dresses

No. 398314

Thanks! Wouldn't the miniskirt be a little too difficult for someone who's never sewed clothes before though? I've only sewed plush toys when I was a preteen and nothing really after that. Anyway I did send some patterns to my instructor so I'm also waiting to hear back from her beforr buying/printing.

No. 398391

I mean it's sewing in elastic and simple pockets vs invisible zipper and darts, take your pick. There's no significant difference in difficulty. Otherwise they're both as simple skirts as you can get, you can't do much less and still have a skirt.

No. 398447

my first real project was a dress with multiple darts and i only had some previous really basic sewing experience and i knew how to operate a sewing machine only. darts aren't hard to sew, only thing you need to remember to sew the tip of dart slightly curved, not straight (especially bust darts). invisible zipper is a bit more diffictult but the key to getting it right is good iron on interfacting, basting it first for stability and presser foot for sewing in invisible zipper. maybe i'm biased against cringe millennial indie pattern overpriced sacks i guess. miniskirt pattern is cute and a timeless classic

No. 398471

I really appreciate the feedback, since I really don't know much about the difficulty of doing things. Thanks for helping a newbie with all this!

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No. 291804[Reply]

previous thread >>187179
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No. 397952

ayrt, congratulations nonna, and for sure your ex was severely pornsick - pornsick scrotes only tend to like vagina when it's hairless and pink and even then they'll rarely go down on you. I'm glad this experience was the opposite though, and that he was enthusiastic to please you even if you didn't shower. A lot of the same men I described above have also said they prefer it when she doesn't shower or has just been working out, it's something to do with the pheromones I think. Good for you, I hope he treats you well!

No. 398021

If you ovulated later in your cycle then you typically menstruate around that many days late too. So could be that before you ever had unprotected sex and before you ever were stressed out about that.. you were already set to be 'behind schedule' this month due to later OV

If he was pushing you on the no condom thing and it wasn't just a mutual 'not thinking in the moment' thing.. I would get tf out of that relationship so fast.

No. 398397

Incoming sexually frustrated rant:
I’m pretty sure that I have vaginismus. I’m 21, still a kissless hugless vigin, never been in a relationship and I’m probably not going to get in one anytime soon (I’m a shut in). I don’t know if it’s just bad luck, shit genes, or if god refuses to let me procreate or what but I hate it. I can’t even use tampons because they hurt. I know this sounds silly and vaginismus is common, but I feel like a failure somehow. Like I’m less of a woman, even though I know it’s not true and I literally have a vagina. The worst part is, I desperately DESPERATELY want to. I have a sex drive and I get horny. Sure, I can get off just fine by playing with my clit but I’ve done it for years and I’m getting bored. I can get one finger in there, but it’s like my vagina doesn’t stretch properly or something. Whenever I try to get another finger in there I just can’t. Even if I’m wet and want to REALLY bad, I just feel really tight. Like yes, I know that sex doesn’t equal penetration, but I fucking WANT penetration, at least to try on my own. Not for a moid or anyone else, but for myself. It’s not even a me not liking it or being scared of it thing. I like masturbating and it feels good. Sometimes I’ll use my vibrator which works great on my clit, but whenever I try to put it in I can’t get anything other than the tip of it in. When I can do it with a finger in there it feels good, not as good as the clit but it’s decent.

So I’m at a complete loss of what to do, and naturally, I agonize over it. What if I get with a moid someday and I want to have sex and I can’t, and then he gets disappointed and he leaves me or something? What if I end up with a girl and she tries to use a strap on or something and then I just can’t, I ruin it and then she leaves? What if I need to get a pap smear done someday and I can’t, and I end up traumatized because of the pain? What if I want to have kids and I can’t? Am I just defective? Why me of all people? Like if I were asexual it would be okay but I’m bi and it’s not fair! God is a fucking sadist by making me horny and then not even letting me get fucked by anyone or even be able to get any penetration because pussy too small. It feels so embarrassing. Please help.

No. 398410

Hi nonna, I have a very similar issue to you and understand you so much especially the part where you said you feel like less of a woman. It really sucks to have something that should be naturally pleasurable be associated with pain instead. I can insert a tampon and 2 fingers but anything beyond that burns like hell and takes a long time to "loosen up". Even for my first cervical smear they used the child-sized speculum and it burned so much and took ages to get in.
I don't know what country you're in but most countries have dilator sets that you can buy to train your pelvic floor muscles to relax upon insertion. However even I found the smallest ones of these quite painful to insert, so I would honestly recommend you try an inflatable dildo if that stuff is even available to you. I'm in the UK and got mine from Lovehoney. I know it sounds retarded and funny but this was literally the only thing that would help me break through that "tight wall" feeling that you get on insertion. The bonus of the inflatable ones is that you can sort of insert the thing when it's soft/semi-soft so your vaginal walls aren't stretching as much and you can squish it around and just insert a tiny bit at a time.

Ofc I would also recommend speaking to a good gyno or doctor about this but I understand that many of them are very dismissive or just pull the "have a glass of wine/use lube" shit so if you fancy taking it into your own hands instead I would recommend and see if you can get what I mentioned above. For the first week of using it I would literally just insert like a tip of the deflated dildo around the entrance of the vaginal canal and have it sit there while I'd watch a Netflix show or something kek. It was soft enough to not push against the walls or stretch them at all yet I could still get something up there. Of course this is just my experience and yours may differ but in my experience they are much better than trying to train your muscles with hard objects like tampons/dilators etc.

Also try to constantly remind yourself that vaginismus is both a physical and mental condition. Your brain knows from previous experiences that penetration = pain so before you've even inserted anything, your muscles have already tensed up in anticipation of pain, thus causing even more pain. It's like getting ready for a football to hit your face or something. If you do Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 398904

Wait so where can I buy a inflatable dildo where the material isn't toxic for my vaginal health?
I also can only fit ONE finger!

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No. 392054[Reply]

Post anything you can think of. Specific clothing, styles, whatever.
>button down shirts
>more suits
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No. 398341

Don't worry nona i understand…

No. 398483

I think I understand you. The straight shape of the metal vs the slight reveal of the back of the thigh.

No. 398484

I can never get into the "covered moid" thing because the man feels like a parasite inhabiting the body of the machine. I start desiring the metal itself and hate the man in it. Autistic car fuckers will get it

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Not the first two tho but 1920s and onward

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No. 90960[Reply]

I can't be the only one who constantly has to deal with selfish and clueless guys who've obviously got their idea of sex from watching too much porn.

So let's share our worst and cringeworthies sexual experiences in this thread!
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No. 398279

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>newly single after 3yr relationship
>horny and lonely
>meet new guy
>start situationship with him
>occasional sex, kisses and cuddles
>he is generally cool but awkwardly keeps me a secret at the same time as he wants to do bf gf stuff
>one day in bed
>we start making out
>he starts fingering me
>he's using so much force that he's basically LIFTING ME UP as if I'm a bowling ball
>I tell him to chill out and that it hurts
>he slows down but doesn't stop trying to claw his way through my vaginal wall
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No. 398283

I have 0 experience but maybe try to explain to him how to do it properly or get a different brand of condoms with a bigger size or a different material? Or get a sex toy.

No. 398286

Nah that guy just wants to do it raw without thinking about STDs kr pregnancy. Even if he were presented with well fitting condoms, he'd still whine about using them.

No. 398289

nta but no self respecting woman should continue to have sex with a man who values his dick more than her health and safety from pregnancy.

No. 398382

Kek this thread is funny. Keep it alive!!

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No. 203317[Reply]

Share any experiences or thoughts on current day sex work.

Have you ever cammed, sugared or escorted? How did it impact you psychologically?

Can sex work be something empowering and fulfilling, as Twitter prostitutes claim it to be?

Should sex work be legal and regulated? What do you think about Onlyfans and the recent ban reversal on it, etc.

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No. 397203

Do you know what survivorship bias is?

No. 397272

Have you ever tried to use these programs anon? Majority of the time you have to jump through hoops IF you even qualify. When I was homeless my city ate up the "poor men don't get help" meme hard, a lot of women's shelters got shut down or turned super exclusive (the only available women's shelter here only allowed you in if you were addicted to drugs), other programs will scream at you about how you don't need help if you e beg everyone in your life first
I understand what it is, but as the statistics I stated, the chances of getting murdered because you ran an erotic massage clinic out of your home is next to none, the chances of being homeless and getting trafficked, murdered, sick etc is through the roof

No. 397285

Why not just tell your family that you’re literally considering prostitution? It sounds like they don’t understand the gravity of the situation. You do not want to get raped for pay. I feel like anons understate how much the industry will change you. There is no going back to who you were previously. Everything changes for the worst.

No. 397295

>Why not just tell your family that you’re literally considering prostitution?
Nta but if this was an option for women considering prostitution they wouldn't be here at all, and depending on the family they'd cut you off for considering it too so then you really won't be getting help at all - it's just risk after risk after risk

No. 398174

How do people get donations on Twitch?

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No. 209934[Reply]

This thread is to do with all gardening related matters!
Feel free to ask for advice or post progress of your garden, indoor plants etc.
Or just have a chat about gardening in general.
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No. 396801

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Longshot but does anyone have experience with lithops? I figured they would be just like my other succulents but the internet has got me freaked out over how finicky they are, are they really that sensitive?

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I need help. I bought a neem oil spray to get rid of a spider mite infestation that popped up a few days ago on my potted Mandevilla plant. The potted plant resides outside on my terrace where it's sunny.
I sprayed the whole plant thursday night and will again saturday morning or night. Will the spider mites kill my beloved flowering plant? How do I get rid of them? How long will it take for them to disappear? What else can I do?

The color of the flowers seemed to be sucked out and muted…not as vibrant. I'm worried my plant won't survive.

No. 398173

I have a major slug problem which means that practically everything I plant in my raised bed gets eaten instantly. It’s time to bring my tender plants outside but I’m worried that the slugs will ravage those, too. I’ve seen them eat a whole medium-sized plant completely bare in one night. Nothing I’ve tried so far (coffee grounds, egg shells, copper tape, nematodes) has made any difference. I’m going to give the nematodes one more try because I suspect it was slightly too cold out the first time I used them, but is there anything else I can do?
I’ve read that certain plants like rosemary and lavender repel slugs, but it’s not clear to me to what extent. Do slugs simply not eat them, or do they actually repel slugs from the area they grow in? I’ve kept the area around the bed clear so far because the slugs use nearby plants as shelter and little ramps into the raised bed. Would planting lavender around my raised bed help to keep the slugs out?

No. 398784

I have seen slugs glide over blades and spikes to get to food. You need a duck.

No. 398888

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I'll be honest, I live in texas and just kinda keep it outside. It's wet af here so I have it in soil that is like mostly rock and perlite. It's not doing fantastic because of this, but it's still alive and growing. I bring it in when it gets close to freezing, but that fucker stays outside when it's 110F out. It gets a full fuckin day's worth of sun though. For an indoor plant, I think giving it the full sun it needs will be difficult.

Succulents are kinda known for being extremely hardy and retard resistant. You know how like when aloe gets the right amount of sun they are actually an ugly taupe kinda color? But when they are light starved and soggy they are actually a pretty bright green and they will still grow new shoots despite severe neglect? If you did THAT to a lithop, it will probably die. I think the biggest problem I have had was over watering, and rotting them. They really hate wet feet.

Maybe someone else who actually likes their lithops will come add their thoughts.


I have heard beer traps were the way to go + handpicking to help out, but keep in mind i have never ever done this. This is just what boomers have told me.

If the neem oil was used a lot or was high concentration, it could stress the plant out and make it a bit less vibrant. It's not the only explanation, but I do know neem oil can cause issues when used in excess. I don't think there's much you can do for that besides wait a longer time before applying more, and maybe apply less next time.
I know it sounds fucking retarded, but cleaning the leaves and shit regularly will help. You could be destroying their homes and eggs that they lay in the leaves. When it comes to pests, I generally recommend people to take as many different approaches as possible.

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