/g/ - girl talk

>>433320
Nona this is beautiful im so happy for you

>>266731
came back to this as its almost our seven year anniversary and felt like adding more.

>each others firsts everything
>grew up where the women in his family took care of the money and thus i manage the money
>this allows me not to have a job and buy a house in my name paid off. plus huge savings
>spending six months in europe in total that he paid for
>i can unabashedly be myself and all my retarded quirks, he loves me for me and i truly believe that
>he finds me beautiful when im haggard and i know deep down he does
>i can be the most nasty bitch but he will still be in my corner and hyping me up
>honestly my biggest supporter and cant say enough when he is proud of me
>a hidden bleeding heart, he loves cats and helping other people
>emotionally intelligent, hes introspective and humble.
>he can read me very well, we are very synced up and he can easily tell when something is off
>our values and politics align so well
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>>433327
i'm very distanced from my ex nowadays so idk a lot about him but I heard he got arrested (temporarily) and fired from his job and I saw his old friends laughing at him and posting screencaps of him having meltdowns over them trolling him. so it sounds like he is suffering

>>433485
nona, this is so sweet. i hope someday to find a love like this. best wishes to you both, seriously!

>>433855
thank you anon<3 I hope you find the one that fits right in your life as well.

>>433504
Thank you!!

I'm 5'5 closer to 5'6 and weigh 126lbs. While I'm not overweight, I have a bit of bingo wings going on. Not like picrel but you get what I mean. My body like to store excess weight in my upper body area, which doesn't help. I assume I'd either have to lose bf or go through body recomp to get rid of them.

>>433537
I also have this, I dont think theres any solution except lifting harder or getting surgery

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>>433257
Whatever’s most popular in your area for straight people will have more people on it period.

>>433257
If your city has a lesbian Facebook group or some other sort of lesbian meetup/group that’s the way I’ve made lesbian friends I’m a lescel but maybe you’ll have better luck

>>433311
would you date a guy who was really attractive and interesting but also was a criminal/terrible person?

>>433197
That's not what it means. It means they spent a weirdly huge amount of time with their family (way more than normal people) and most likely still live with them/refuse to move out. Like they're totally obsessed with their family and feel a compulsion to see them constantly. This has been the case for literally every man I've met who uses that term. Pure manchildren.

>>433441
nah, i mostly meant men who actually have interesting hobbies/interests. i'm getting the most basic men ever. stuff like pics from the gym, fishing, or from parties.

Botox makes young women look older. On older women it looks "ok", but it is obvious and doesn't make them look young.

>>433112
And they all look like Fox News reporters. Lol. Lmao

>>433112
The botox, the smoothing filter, the fake tan and heavy makeup combo makes them look awful, the ones in their 20s look much older than they are

>>433112
>The little boy on her lap growing up learning its normal for women including mommy to chop themselves up to be pretty
bleak

>>433112
they all look so uncanny and none of their eyebrows move

>>422147
if you're an adult you can call the cops ahead of time that you're leaving of your own free will

>>421683
>>421669

Okay so just an update.

Mom and manchild have been getting more distant and snubbing me more. Manchild is still always, ALWAYS talking or sitting around or walking in/out, so when I leave my room, I must pretend everything is fine and talk when he speaks. While Im trying to emotionally detach, its not easy as Im isolated so theyre just about I have irl. Pathetic ik.

When I was showering, I heard mom walk by (you can hear everything in this place), so she knows I was in there. All of a sudden the water turns super hot, scalding, due to laundry, so she did it on purpose, I think. Other times she told me she waits to do the laundry when manchild is in the shower for that reason.

Stupidly, I couldnt take it anymore and talked to mom about this. I was so wrecked up ugly crying and shaking what I was holding. She got mad at me! She raised her voice and started swearing, saying, "Fine! I wont fucking wash anything while youre in there!", "You think I would do that?", "FFS theres always something wrong!", "You hate us (her & manchild), I can feel it!". She threatened to not take the dog to the vet this week for its appointment, if "youre (me) going to be like this!" I told her to not punish our pet for this. She said she just said that cause she was mad, and that we are bringing the dog to the vet. Then she cried and said me and manchild are all she has, so she would never do such a thing (scalding) deliberately to me.

Stupidly I told her I was really depressed due to grief, and she asked if I should go to a psychologist. So now theyll probably make me out to be crazy, when really, they could use some therapy themselves. I said Id rather work on getting a career. Later on she apologized for her behavior and denied scalding on purpose.

Later that evening after dinner, not really late, they were both sleeping. I really, really wanted to leave. Ive never gone on a walk or out by myself in so long, due to agoraphobia and not being in the safest area.

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MIL said her and husband are going to retire next year but they'll be 2k in the hole every month. Tell your husband he can't retire at 65 because we wont be able to afford kids if we're coughing up 2k post tax, the audacity, for you every month.

>>424059
Ideally, try to get a job (waitress or cashier), take a small credit to pay for a secondhand car or to rent a small place for a month so you can touch your first payroll or go to a female (domestic abuse) shelter. Run girl, you only have one life.

I was doing pretty good at having my own boundaries and understanding how to deal with my family dynamics. My moms mental illness, coldness, stubborness and dependency among other things. But one of my older sisters would always go back and forth from reaching out every year or so, to dissapearing completely again and going through some terrible isolation with bad jobs. She'd shower me with compliments for a night, then, radio silence for weeks or more usually months. but I wouldnt see her for years even.
We were always pit against eachother because of my moms illness, so I figured she wanted to mend things maybe and we would all try and pitch in and heal. I felt like I was making progress getting closer to her, opened up a lot with eachother, I was trying to boost her self esteem, combating the self deprecation and taking her out when she'd agree, nudging her away from dangerous situations, self destructive thinking and mistreatment from moids.
But we were helping our mom out with a difficult part of her life, and something seemed to overflow? She became so vicious to me, I figured she was stressed so I rolled with it. But it got bad so quickly when she was visiting me, started intensly saying kind of bizzare accusations about me and she started saying vicious, unkind and angry things. She then kept trying to fight me and when I resisted she got angry and kept trying to knock me over. Im sturdy so I was fine and didnt need to fight back and just braced when she'd swing, but it was disturbing so I bluff warned her Id get legal intervention if she didnt stop attacking and destroying my things, and this is what crossed her line. Still not sure if I was weird for that. She cut me off not too long after and has disappeared since. Im worried about her and unsure if I should try and find her.
Anyone have something similar happen?

>>432466
Hi Blaine(hi cow )

Silly old man (Al) shows up around 5:12.

>>432466
Isn't he an actual pedo or something

>>432469
imagine he tries to eat you out

>>432327
I'm in my early 30s and I think I and many of my peers look better now than we did in our twenties, I don't feel 'old' at all and due to health problems that started in my early twenties I didn't get to live through that ideal health 20s and am actually healthier now so I see a lot of these concerns as really individual and basically silly as a whole. I don't get what I'm supposed to feel paranoid about. No one in my age group (women I mean) really has wrinkles or doesn't look 'youthful.' Yes people are likelier to take you seriously as a woman when you're slightly older which is nice, you also aren't surrounded as much by retards making really bad life choices which is likewise nice. You can wear all the same things you did before but you probably have a better sense of style when you've lived a little and had time to develop it, you don't have to do 'different' skincare it's all just corporate propaganda to try to sell you things.

I think the only thing I don't like about being over 30 is how it's a bit harder to make new friends or to get your current friends to do fun activities with you as many of them just have more responsibilities in life, but it's still not that bad. I still make new friends regularly, just not at the rate I used to. There's also the pressure to decide on your career track which can be a bit stifling but again, I know many people who changed careers successfully at later ages so I'm not sweating it too much.

>>432327
Being volcel and childfree helps a lot when it comes to aging anxiety, and so is being impervious to female socialization.

I figured out what I want the most in a relationship. It’s called ‘living apart together’. Too bad most people who want it are over 50.

>>432926
miriam margolyes had this with her partner (though i think they may live together now due to their ages) and they've been together for decades despite sometimes not even living in the same continent

I find myself being able to carry myself with much more grace and confidence in public now that I'm older, but I also think my mental issues are morphing in a nightmarish way. I've always been a neurotic person but I was also much more carefree when I was younger. These days I'm so hyperaware of death, disease, the state of the world and the rapidly increasing cost of living and how pointless all of this is, but I also can't do much about it either when I have bills to pay and am barely above to keep my head above water. The highs of my life weren't all that great but I'm already in a decline. Maybe I'm just spiraling because I just got the news of a family member suddenly passing away.

>>432408
The man or the men you’re having sex with are dirty.

>>432602
>>432408
If you get fingered by dirty hands it can cause that or again getting eaten out by a dirty tongue, it’s not necessarily the penis if it has a condom.

>>431498
For me, I noticed it makes a difference what I masturbate to. When I'm watching something, I seem to be somehow less focused on myself and the orgasms tend to be weaker. When I'm purely focusing on myself, they can be pretty earth-shattering.

My vulva has a one inch tear in it randomly? I was looking at myself with a hand mirror because I felt irritation down there and there was a tear. I haven't had sex in months and I got my copper IUD removed a few months ago. What could cause this? I've been itchier down there lately too. Should I go to the gyno?

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I've been learning to swim for just over a year, I've gone into deep water (1.7 meters+) occasionally but I still get freaked out.

I want to get to the level where I can swim full lengths in a public pool with ease - any tips or advice?

I love swimming outdoors so much, I feel so calm and free when I do. I think it's one of the things that makes me happiest in life, so much so that my dream is to have a pool in my garden one day. Shame i'm a poorfag and britbonger, otherwise i'd have one now.

I've always loved the water, my family would call me fishie because I loved the ocean and pools so much. I was shit at swimming though because my dad taught me the basics but I didn't go to swimming lessons or anything. I took it up last year at the university pool and I watched a bunch of swimming videos to correct my technique. I usually swim 1km for a standard workout and alternate between breast stroke, backstroke and freestyle with some breaks in between to catch my breath. I can easily do 1km freestyle though if I get into a rhythm. Still trying to learn butterfly, my dolphin kick is okay on its own but when I put it together with the arm movement its like I forget how to do it completely lol. My biggest challenge was learning a breathing rhythm with freestyle, but now its my favourite stroke. I really want to be a distance swimmer because I could swim at a relaxed pace forever, its so fun and it feels like I'm transported to another world.

I want to do open water swimming but the ocean water is pretty cold where I live (anything between 12-18 degrees) and I hyperventilate when I put my face in the water. Does anyone else experience that? Its like I can't breathe out for longer than a second before I need to gasp for air. Its not an issue I have in a heated pool and I'm not sure how to fix it. I want to join an open water swimming group, but why the fuck do memberships cost so much? Its so much more than access to a chlorinated pool that actually has to be maintained lol.

My biggest regret is that I wasn’t raised somewhere warm and sunny, near the sea. My entire life I wanted to swim, surf, paddle etc but my house is thousands of miles from the nearest beach and it’s cold here too. I genuinely get depressed over it at times.

>>307473
Diving will help you.

>>428478
Nona I made my ideal man on chat.ai. It’s fun and harmless, especially role paying sex. I literally made a love story where we met in college and then fell in love and married kek. The filter is less strict too now, you can get away with a whole lot more.

>>428485
Meant to say character ai sorry

I want to be folded in two and fucked raw and filled with hot cum until I get pregnant
I'm a simple woman

I wish he would mate-press me and tell me "get pregnant" at each pump