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No. 414433[Reply]

Since a lot of posts in the relationship advice thread are concerning their bf's porn habits, I thought I'd make a spinoff of the subreddit LAP: a support thread for nonas who have dealt with or are currently dealing with a bf/husband who is a porn user/addict.

Feel free to vent, ask other nonas for advice or advise others, etc.

Please keep it respectful and avoid raging at others, as it's a sensitive and all too common problem for many modern women.
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No. 443884

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>>443855

No. 443901

>>443882
I'm going to kill myself.
>>443884
I will. I'm tired honestly.

No. 443916

>>443901
Dont kill yourself, I meant that as in you can surely do better than a man with zero sexual disipline

No. 444717

>>443916
I left. ♥

No. 445464

A few hours ago I broke up with my porn addicted boyfriend. Its been a thing for a few months now that has bothered me and I have vented here previously.
Over this past weekend I was groped at a party and my now ex was aware of it and we handled it the best we could at the time because I chose not to let it get to me. Im still coming to terms with that happening. The next night while my ex was asleep, I decided to check his phone and found out that during the time that I feel asleep after that party, that he was watching porn. Spent today thinking over things and eventually sat down and told him what I saw in his phone and how fucked up it is and that I want to break up. Ofc he responded with "I have urges" and even tried to argue about the time of his search history lining up with when I was asleep after getting groped. Ofc he tried to start talking about how he couldn't believe I went thru his phone and I just shut that shit down and told him to get his stuff and leave.
I am upset because I did have hope that I could help him get over his addiction at some point in the near future. I did and still love him unfortunately but I refuse to let myself continue in a relationship with someone who lacks morals that severely. Please take my story and remember how sick these men are that even when something traumatic happens to you, that they will always prioritize porn and their sexual urges. If you are currently in a relationship with a porn addict, this will and probably already happen to you. Please think really hard before trying to help these fucked up individuals to try and save your relationship because you may have a glimmer of faith that they can get sober.


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No. 81513[Reply]

What are the pros and cons of being short/tall?
Are you happy with your height or do you wish you could change it?
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No. 443389

>>443388

The tallest woman currently alive is Sun Fang, who is 7'3''. Zhang Ziyu is also 7'3''. Siddiqa Parveen - who was 7'8'' - died earlier this year at the age of 36.

No. 443448

I actually love the cropped tops trend as a short girl because they just fit like regular tops on me. I need to stock up on a few before the trend dies out so that I won't have to go back to wearing regular length tops that look wrong and frumpy on me.

No. 443505

In case anyone was wondering, the all-time record for women is 8'6.75'': https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trijntje_Keever

No. 443512

>>443368
I actually think this is super based.

No. 443731

I realise I wouldn't fit much on my tiny bed if I was taller kek


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No. 203705[Reply]

I believe we should have a thread about binge eating. A lot of women suffer from this issue and it is very embarrassing to discuss. The rona virus hasn't helped a lot of us binge eaters, and in my case personally, it's only increased my eating.
Feel free to discuss whatever you want, what you binge eat, how long you've been doing it, how does it affect your day to day life, how long have you gone without having a binge etc.
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No. 439701

>>438494
I'm going through the exact same thing at the moment. I just can't stop eating. I don't even enjoy it particularly and I always feel awful after, but even when I feel sick and my stomach hurts so much I can't stop. For me I am pretty sure it's emotional, I just have this persistent feeling of emptiness and it feels like overeating will help even though it never really does and I just end up with an extreme stomachache.

No. 439707

I binge ate on and off for ten years and I'm finally recovered. I'll post what worked for me below but if I had one piece of advice it's to try weightlifting. You have to eat a good amount or you feel sick and dizzy, you burn off food while your muscles recover from the weights, seeing the weight go up and body change over time is a fantastic confidence boost, and best of all it's solo.

I feel for all you nonnies, I fucking hated how this food shit took over my whole life. I really hope you can lessen it.

Hard labour. I started weightlifting two years ago and I put a lot of effort in so it keeps me fit. It also helps with my food-loving side because I have to eat a decent amount to perform at the gym. Eating whole foods with an emphasis on protein and fats. Eating three meals a day plus any sort of snack I want, sometimes a bit of chocolate sometimes some greek yoghurt and fruit. Don't go into a diet because it's unsustainable and you will binge from not feeling satisfied. Just start eating a balanced diet and managing your cravings and accept that your body will regulate itself even if it takes a while. Location sharing - I can't go buy binge food if someone might be watching me. I know not everyone can, but leaving a stressful job and entering one that never makes me want to binge. And finally having a nigel who unconditionally loves me and thinks my body is amazing as is. And telling him about the binging a few years ago because I wanted help.

No. 442996

Almost went on a 3k+cal binge, but I managed to cut it to maybe 500 by drinking water early on and taking a few deep breaths. Still a stupid mistake but it could’ve been worse. Hopefully this is useful both for myself in future and anybody reading.

No. 443022

I've been eating a lot because my mother decided to turn the kitchen into her office and i have put it in my mind that i cannot use the kitchen anybody so i must buy outside food, leading a to binge. I've gained weight and my therapist noticed and i feel so embarrassed and ashamed that i can't control my eating. I miss being skinny so much, i long for a time where i never had to think about my weight or worry about clothes not fitting me well. I'm at my highest weight right now and i just want to regain control over myself and stop trying to cope with being fat or making excuses anymore.

No. 443396

I'm trying so hard not to binge right now. I'm having trouble distracting myself so I'm posting here as an attempt to hold myself accountable.


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No. 91535[Reply]

I can't seem to find the astrology thread, so let's make a new one! I hope everyone is having a lovely Leo season. Post PDFs and book recommendations, your favorite sites, youtubers, and advice etc.
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No. 440764

>>440686
You didn't get them all…

No. 440791

>>440686
Virgo nonas cryin in the club rn. Ngl this seems more like a which signs visit the astro thread most, so far the Scorpio sisters are in the lead.

No. 440805

>>409995
I also heard Cancer rising have a "motherly" vibe to them. Like round faces, big eyes, but not in a child like way. Like Adele or Julia who had motherly faces since they were young. I'm a cancer rising and I related a lot to that more actually.

No. 440831

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i've tried to search how to interpret a birth chart but idgi. what does it mean if i'm a scorpio with venus and lilith in scorpio too? and i find it funny it's associated with sexuality/being wild in bed so much since i'm sexually dysfunctional/avoidant my whole life and i'm genuinely kind of a prude. what's it mean for someone like me? i have a sex drive but it's really low a lot of the time and i avoid sexual stuff like 90% of the time.

>>440686
oh, 22% scorpio atm. that's funny to me.

No. 443290

I have a coworker whose birthday is 2 days before me, same year,and I don't know if it's just me imagining things but I feel like we vibe a lot. Has any Nona ever experienced something similar? Even in school my birthday was near the cutoff date for which age you enter school so I was a year older than a vast majority of my classmates.


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No. 367662[Reply]

A place for latina and hispanic women to chat, vent, offer advice, discuss latin american and hispanic culture. Spanish and portugese talk welcome.
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No. 407159

>>389466
That's definitely true. White peoples definition of white is like.. idk Slavic or British looking. And where I'm from, where it's mostly Mexican immigrants and their kids and grandkids, white is when you're not dark skin. I am just so used to George lopez looking people in my family in friend groups calling me white. It was a culture shock moving to a southern state where the white people look like mama June and honey booboo.

Also I feel very called out with the albino mexican comment. Lol I definitely used to refer to myself as a vanilla bean

No. 407167

I noticed when I am talking online to a person from Latin America I don't mention that my mom is Mexican, they are impressed by my spanish speaking/writing skills but then if the topic comes up somehow they are kind of like, annoyed with me? This happens like 90% of the time when I talk to Mexicans. Like we will literally be online besties but then when I mention I have family in Guanajuato they are like disgusted and tell me how I talk like a ghetto mexican. I literally had one dude tell me I talk like a Blood in Blood out character.

But when it's someone from any other country they aren't annoyed per say but they will be like haha ur so mexican!!

I also notice Mexicans will kind of be upset I don't identify as mexican, like they think I'm ashamed of it. But they will also get annoyed that I mention it like I am stepping on their toes and trying to act like I'm more mexican than they are. Non Mexicans seem to accept me more and will be omg u are latina like me ! And they will positively bring up me being Hispanic and how it's a good thing I can communicate in Spanish

So now I don't mention that my family is mexican if I can avoid it mostly because I don't wanna piss actual Mexicans off with my ghetto ass Spanish. Which makes me sad because I like talking to people from different countries and I like hearing from people in mexico but because me being like gringo washed pisses them off I mostly make friends with latinos from Argentina.

No. 411120

I wish there were more spaces online to talk to other Latina women. I feel like using the internet too much is seen as lame and pointless in our culture. I guess its a good thing as it makes us a less terminally online peope but for introverted latinas like myself its already so hard to make friends irl let alone online

No. 443204

Why the fuck does my family have to be so cringe

No. 443209

>>411120
Everybody is on Facebook and Instagram.


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No. 215207[Reply]

Post men who are shilled as attractive but you think are ugly/overrated. Timmy was posted frequently last thread.
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No. 439547

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>>439113
This is probably what she sees in her mind

No. 443141

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I don't see it.

No. 443142

>>443141
It looks like someone removed his actual jaw and Frankenstein'd it with one taken from another man.

No. 443143

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No. 443232

>>439547
She has eyes nonna. Why would she hallucinate your photoshopped version of him with a Teresa Guidice hairline instead of just having different standards than you do… I think you just wanted to show off your yassification skills which to be fair are pretty good


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No. 442938[Reply]

anyone else have a small neurotic gf that’s really into emasculating tall butches… I am the tall butch(shit thread)

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No. 348964[Reply]

What is a Seasonal Color Analysis?
>"Color analysis (American English; colour analysis in Commonwealth English), also known as personal color analysis (PCA), seasonal color analysis, or skin-tone matching, is a term often used within the cosmetics and fashion industry to describe a method of determining the colors of clothing, makeup, hair style that harmonizes with a person's skin complexion, eye color, and hair color for use in wardrobe planning and style consulting. It is generally agreed that the wrong colors will draw attention to such flaws as wrinkles or uneven skin tone while harmonious colors will enhance the natural beauty of the individual making them appear healthy, brighter, and possible more attractive or put-together."

Kinda similar to the Kibbe thread, this one is specifically dedicated to personal palettes and colors.

>Share good palettes
>Ask for advice on the best clothes or other products for your season
>Find out about your own season
>Vent about your color frustrations
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No. 442802

>>442797
Her skin is't cool at all so she can't be summer.

I don't recommend going by "Ï look like this person, what's her seasonal palette" because differences between "sister" seasons are subtle, eg spring and summer are basically the same to anyone who has a hard time telling cool and warm apart.

No. 442805

>>442802
Summers can have neutral and olive skin tones, at least soft summers can, which are the closest to the autumn palette. Thst girl's forehead looks nothing like her neck or her chin because she's filtered as fuck/wearing foundation. She's most probably not a summer irl but who knows what anon' skin tone might be. I agree, comparing to pictures of other women is useless. Using colormewise with an actual picture of yourself is what she needs.

No. 442806

>>442805
I only go by the 4 season palette so to my knowledge summers can only be cool or neutral (and never neutral-but-warm-leaning). Although screen setting may influence the temperature of the screen now that I think of it. And you're right, foundation is another good reason not to go by pictures.

No. 442813

>>442805
>Using colorwise.me with an actual picture of yourself is what she needs.
Kek, colorwise.me is notoriously unreliable. What she needs to do is drape different colours against herself instead of relying on shitty inaccurate apps and websites.

No. 442825

>>442813
I think colormewise is decent, at least the app allows you to have a default palette and some interesting options to detect colors with your camera. I'm not sure how expensive is to get a personal color consultation but I'd imagine is not cheap.


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No. 249630[Reply]

Find your body type and what suits you best!
>it is not based on weight or height and curves so much as height and bone structure and your limb length and proportions
>Aly Art has some good videos on all the body types
>r/kibbe is a good place to reference and find your body
> if you do post your body, make sure you do not include your face and not include background.
>kibbe body type applies to men as well as women.

please do not accuse anons ITT of being troons or insult their bodies


https://theconceptwardrobe.com/kibbe-body-types/the-kibbe-body-type-test
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No. 442524

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>>442507
The potato sack dresses aren't actually recommended for FNs. When Kibbe described loose, unrestricted garments, in the 80s that was understood to mean something like picrel. The giant tent dresses recommended to FNs on social media come from Pinterest bloggers that didn't understand unrestricted and loose referred to a completely different style of clothing when Metamorphosis was published than what it means today (shapeless potato sack dresses). Tailoring has changed since the 80s and clothes today are made with elastane, which makes their silhouette a lot different from how clothes were 40 years ago.
A lot of Hollywood actresses are verified FN as are most models and they wouldn't be caught dead in what the online Kibbe community thinks FNs should wear.
Tbh online recs are generally a crapshoot. A lot of the ones that are still popular today are 10+ years outdated and made by people who didn't take into account that 80s fabrics were different. In the 80s FNs needed clothes a little loose and oversized because they and they had to account for their length and angularity in a time before stretch clothes were common. The ginormous tents people recommend for FNs today have nothing to do with what Kibbe wrote about. You could look up Princess Diana's casual outfits in the 80s maybe. She was verified FN and wore slightly roomy clothes casually but they weren't figure obscuring at all.
I also found this self-typed FN on Reddit who posted a bunch of her outfits and they all work well despite not being bohemian or oversized whatsoever.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Kibbe/s/YyoSQOr4E3

No. 442632

>>442507
she always cinches her waist with a belt or a vest.

No. 442643

What id do you think cows are?
I think Shay is a D (although the main thread seems to think she's FN) and Lillee Jean is a SG.

No. 442670

>>442507
>posts in r/transgendercirclejerk
that's a man baby

No. 442679

>>442524
Good to know, I would've never thought of that. Thank you!

>>442632
You're right, I see it now too.

>>442670
Ew gross, my bad. That explains the height I guess.


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No. 355760[Reply]

Post characters/actors that you had a crush in your youth but may or may not have any feelings for now

Previous Thread: >>136699
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No. 440744

>>440716
Yes! I love the fact that they never focus on the romantic aspect too much , but the care still shows through, they are my comfort movies even now.
It’s kind of crazy how Miyazaki is able to convey such feelings in a poignant way and still managed to treat his wife like shit.

No. 441743

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i was so weirdly obsessed with her when i was little.

No. 442157

>>441743
She reminds me of Whitney Houston

No. 442656

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Used to watch the show mostly for him. I also shipped him with the main girl and probably self-inserted as her subconsciously without even knowing.

No. 442657

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>>442656
Chester Bennington looking ass but I used to find him cute. He gave me something for this specific phenotype with piercings and glasses. Dion from Braceface has a similar one.


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