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No. 355199[Reply]

A home to post your nerdy crushes here. Whether he just wears nerdy glasses, or if has nerdy hobbies, or is just, a plain nerd.

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No. 573447

>>573444
I thought it was Jacob Aidens from lurking for love

No. 581590

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I want to be under his desk

No. 581647

>>565655
He'd give a good husband, I like how he's defending Jews too instead of clapping for the terrorist simps.(bait/derailing)

No. 581710

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>>573444
I relate to that nona. My biggest fictional crushes are artist's OCs, women are just better at catering to my taste in men than any mainstream media. Bonus, OC in picrel gets objectified in nearly every appearance. It frustrates me I can't publicly sperg or post suggestive fanart like my husbandos from official media, because the artist might see and get weirded out.

No. 582244

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Has anyone posted King Critical yet? Hes pretty cute! I want to pinch his pink nipples til he cries. I only watched his contra points response vid and was pleasantly surprised!



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No. 106527[Reply]

Ask questions, post cute nail art and polish swatches, discus trends, techniques, products, professional services, etc.

What's on your nails right now, farmers?
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No. 582207

>>582205
kek i know some people who's do, maybe you can file under the ridge and reinforce with gel/create a new shape?

No. 582208

>>582205
i don't think so, if your nails look exactly like this, i think you may be lacking in iron, iron is needed in the production of keratin, which is what your nail is made up of, so not having enough of it will make the structure of your nail weaker, the white of the nail seems soft too.

No. 582212

>>582205
I don't know but it looks really cool and I would 100% get acrylics like that kek

No. 582215

>>582205
Check your blood analysis. I have iron deficiency and my nails don't look that flat and crooked.

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>>582206
same, I mean it's really weird, the rest are perfectly fine but there's this one that looks especially sad, it's almost comical



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No. 445681[Reply]

Support for nonas going through breakups/divorce and moving on.

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No. 581901

>>581896
Ignore forever. I think he just wants to let you know that he's still around and make you think about him, it's his way to still have some sort of power over you and your feelings even if you're broken up. You replying something will confirm that this is having an effect on you. My ex kept getting new numbers and account to do this shit, the only thing that made him stop was ignoring him.

No. 581909

Never was in a relationship but I want to send some words to the nonnas struggling. Women make men better, the notion and concept you have of this man is 100% times better than what he truly is.
You are worth it and deserving of love, not breadcrumbs, not half-asses things. The only love you should accept is loud and unashamed.

No. 581918

>>581896
ignore
also i get why you don't have him blocked, they should invent some way to permablock a number without having it saved

No. 581994

>>581901
>>581918
I was leaning towards that way, I'm thankful for the validation lol

>>581909
I understand what you're trying to say, but rn I'm hiding from my ex who had a limerence type of thing on me. Not all loud and unashamed "love" is good for you…

No. 582594

>>502533
Yes lol. Happened to me with my first boyfriend - he broke up with me and was nonchalant about it while I was visibly hurt, then he tried to reconnect two times (I never responded). It's exactly like you said - they think that since you gave them a chance they can do even better and drown in pussy, their moid friends assure them in that, then they go on Tinder or to the real world and it turns out women don't want them or won't tolerate their shit like the ex did.



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>Contact
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No. 580896

>>580342
Are you in the Dutchfag discord server?

No. 580971

>>580896
The one from the Dutch thread here, you mean? I am, yes.

No. 581821

>Contact
sesquiterpene@proton.me
I'll eventually give you my discord if we click.

>How long this contact will remain active ?

Most likely forever

>Timezone

GMT+2

>Age

soon 22

>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?

20-25
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Anyone in Stavanger area? Need based female friends, feeling lonely with my Asmongold watching bf

No. 584152

>>577090
Sent you a request!



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No. 366897[Reply]

A place for Asian women to chat, vent, offer advice, discuss Asian culture.
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No. 581412

>>581354
People actually push back against saying jungle fever, but you will literally see anti racism people say yellow fever. I wish people would just call it a fetish. Even on here people primarily use it to insult the woman rather than the moid doing the fetishization.

No. 581632

>>580491
>>581172
Skin bleaching is a form of self-hatred.

No. 581640

>>581412
>Even on here people primarily use it to insult the woman rather than the moid doing the fetishization.
This is what frustrates me so much about discussions about the fetishization of Asian women. It basically never targets the moids who are doing the actual fetishization, only the Asian women who are the victims of it.

Like, I do think it's worth discussing the way a lot of Asian women in interracial relationships, especially with white men, willingly fetishize themselves in order to appeal to a racialized male gaze as a result of gendered model minority dynamics that seeks white male validation due to existing in a Eurocentric, patriarchal society. But any attempts to have that conversation are always drowned out by people who resent Asian women for "having it easier" so to speak, and so it always just devolves into mocking Asian women without any actual productive discourse.

It's always treated like this zero sum game. On the one end you have Asian male incels who feel entitled to Asian women's bodies, and also other POCs who view Asians as Schrödinger's racial minority so they only ever care about racism against Asians when they can use it as a gotcha, and otherwise they treat us as "basically white." And so these people only ever use Asian fetishization to degrade Asian women instead of criticizing white men. But then on the other end you have Asian women who are actually feeding into this racist dynamic, and they refuse to listen to any valid criticism of their gooner white moids because they're so used to being the target of mockery over it instead of being offered empathy.

It's just really aggravating as an Asian woman who wants to discuss these things, but has nowhere to turn to because everyone just uses it as an excuse to attack us instead.

No. 581674

>>581301
Yeah I had and still have this every time I get a pimple. My American derms all just prescribed azelaic acid and said to give it time but my doctor back home said laser is the only thing that helps because if it doesn’t fade within the first three months then it’s like the capillaries broke and healed in that shape. You can try the at home ipl devices if in office is out of the question

No. 581687

>>581354
Jungle fever sounds so barbaric and cruel, comparing people to animals. Glad it's severely outdated.

>>581632
Asian beauty standards revolve around self hatred



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No. 54209[Reply]

Maybe it's just me, but I feel as though birth control is something that women don't talk enough about despite it being so complex and many people using it regularly. Let's post our comments/questions about birth control!

- contraception
- acne control
- PCOS management
- hormonal treatment
- ring vs. pill vs. non-hormonal
- side effects/benefits
- weight gain/loss
- etc.
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No. 581035

>>580871
>Is this true?
Complicated situation. Right off the bat, I think a good doctor should be able to answer the question "what are my options?" even if the only answer is "there are no other options." I think you need to think carefully, maybe get a second opinion, and get some real concrete answers about what you should be trying to achieve, not in vague terms like "this pill "helps" your ovaries." Like what does that mean? Is she providing the pill as HRT in order to bring your hormones up to normal levels? If so, that's increasingly the standard of care for women in menopause after years of them saying that taking estrogen causes cancer or stroke (or so I have been told by my mom). So maybe it's worth it, but maybe they can give you exact numbers and do blood tests to tell you where you are without BC and where you are with it and if it's doing it's job and getting your hormone levels where they need to be to be healthy.
Some people have symptoms on BC and others don't. Some people incorrectly attribute things to the pill and others notice real correlations. If you tried really hard to lose weight and then the weight started falling off once you got off the pill, that's decent evidence that they could be linked for you. On the other hand, 5 years is a long time and a lot of people go through significant changes in weight, libido, and relationship status over that period of time. There's also a big, conscious push against women taking their fertility in their own hands that aims to demonize BC, so if you gain weight and you're looking for solutions, there are a lot of people on tiktok willing to tell you that you need to access your divine feminine and balance your hormones by ceasing BC. That's why I don't want to say it's good or bad. It has it's uses in certain contexts. But I think you should be able make that choice confidently from an informed perspective.

No. 581056

>>581035
Thanks anon for your insights. I am totally on your side and believe there are dual options here, I'm not one to fall for the tiktok trends discussing medicine so I do believe I probably need a second opinion. I was put on BC to stop the ovulation process which apparently is what creates cysts. But again I'm just not super confident in that information, wouldn't every woman have to be on it forever then? I am just starting to reconsider how I take medications and consider a more natural approach to my body. Maybe I do need BC, but I think it would be best to probably seek more medical advice.

No. 581612

Nonnies idk if this is the right thread but what are the chances of getting pregnant from precum alone? Are they even substantial?

No. 581847

>>581612
I remember learning from sex ed that you can get pregnant from it

No. 582243

I've been on the pill for about 8 years now, for the fact it clears my skin and reduces my menstrual flow. It also seems to maket me less irritable and overemotional. But I miss having even a sliver of libido so I kind of want to get off it now. Any advice of what I could do to fix the aforementionned issues? My blood flow is really heavy so stuff like just drinking cranberry juice or whatever won't work.



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No. 581558[Reply]

A place for middle Eastern women to discuss preety much everything(redundant thread, check the catalog before making a thread)

No. 581560

And this one? >>>/g/380577

No. 581585

>>581558
>>581560
Nta but that one have an ugly hijabi thread pic and pretty much hijacked by jews. Muslims can use that one kek



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No. 282262[Reply]

This is a thread for heterosexual women who are opting for voluntary celibacy. Feel free to discuss your thoughts and experiences


>A growing number of young women are rejecting sexual liberalism and embracing celibacy instead. Studies in recent years have reported young women trend towards being less sexually active. With the National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles Covid study reporting an overall decline in sexual behaviour since lockdown, especially fewer one night stands, it’s undeniable that the culture surrounding dating and hookups has been irrevocably changed since the pandemic.

>While earlier iterations of feminist thinking celebrated female sexuality in all its forms, now more young women are questioning how patriarchy has shaped the dynamics of heterosexual culture, and women’s ability to exercise their full agency and power during sex.

Keep in mind: This thread is not a female involuntary celibacy (female incel) thread nor a dating strategy thread.

Here are few questions to start off:
- How long have you been consciously celibate for?
- What made you decide to go celibate?
- Are you experiencing difficulties?
- Has your quality of life improved?
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No. 581413

I am struggling a lot. I'm gonna talk about sex stuff so here is the TMI warning.
For most of my life, I have always been a person with a very healthy libido. It might sound stupid but I always really valued my sexuality even if it's just been me by myself (i've always been 4b/celibate). And maybe people with low libidos might not understand, but the sexual aspect of myself felt like a really important part of me and the experience of being alive in general.

I'm not exactly sure what happened, but within the last few years, I can't find my attraction to men anymore. It's like something clicked into place and I became so disgusted by the "male soul/ essence/ vibes" that even their bodies became unattractive to me. Simultaneously, I went through a very weird situation of crushing extremely hard on a very androgynous woman, which really (confusingly) re-lit my internal flame for a while. But I unfortunately got double mindfucked when she did a 180, found a man, and had a baby in under a year. That really broke me, and I can't think of her that way anymore. So I'm left once again in this place where I am not feeling attraction to anyone, my libido is mostly gone and what little it manages to flare up, it's not connected to anything so there's no way to take advantage of it. And it is really making my life feel so empty.

I keep wanting to delusionally believe that maybe I can find another woman I could be attracted to, but I've known my whole life I am straight and one anomaly hasn't changed the fact that I don't find other women attractive. So I've tried to re-ignite my interest in men; watched all the actors and youtubers I used to thirst over, tried to get back into my old 2D husbandos, I keep all the sexy men and man bodies threads unhidden and always look at the photos anons post (which I used to like) and just… nothing.

I was totally fine being celibate before because my fantasy life was fulfilling and I felt like I was still living a normal life. But now I feel broken and empty like I’m living a half life. I miss my “sex life” so much. And I don’t even understand what happened.

No. 581472

>>581413
Sex drive changes with age and you probably need more for it to get going now like an emotional connection

No. 581513

>>581195
I should really finish this anime Queen Mari's too entertaining.

No. 581514

>>581413
wow anon, was literally casually scrolling down /g/ when I saw this - I've almost gone through the exact same thing. Sadly, I don't have much advice but I hope you can have some comfort knowing you're not alone.

No. 581516

>How long have you been consciously celibate for?
3 months

>What made you decide to go celibate?

I became celibate because I’ve experienced, time and time again, what it feels like to be in relationships where my boundaries around sexual integrity and respect were ignored, dismissed, or outright betrayed. I once naively believed in full emotional and sexual exclusivity (for both sexes) not just in body, but in desire and attention.

In my most recent (likely the last) relationship with a man, I was clear about what I needed to feel safe, respected, and truly loved: no porn, no thirst-following, no secret lusting after other women online. I tried to pre-empt this problem I’ve had with many men, by communicating my no porn boundary early, transparently, and gave my partner the freedom to walk away if that wasn’t something he could honour. He chose to stay, he agreed and then broke those promises again and again. He never admitted anything, I’d always have to play detective to find his pathetic lusting, and every time he excused himself and made me out to be a prude.

I gave everything. I was adventurous, present, loyal, and sexually devoted. But no amount of love, trust, or passion was enough to stop him - or ANY previous partners - from objectifying other women behind my back. I was grieving betrayal after betrayal while being gaslit into thinking my pain was overreaction. I was left feeling like a placeholder, or even a fleshlight, while the real focus of their arousal lived on their screens. He would screw his eyes shut during sex, or do me from behind. God knows what porn scenes he was replaying in his head. After 2.5 years and constant betrayal, sex became a chore and he would complain how it wasn’t like it was at the start. Well yeah, you ruined it you asshole.

Worst of all, I carried the emotional labour of his lust, dishonesty, and guilt. I had to cry, explain, beg, forgive. Even after the most vulnerable, painful moments (including an abortion on my own birthday) he watched porn and I was still expected to tolerate the same disrespect. Somehow, he always had an excuse like (“I was struggling about the abortion too!” “I don’t know what that is, I never watched that”) and I was always supposed to understand.

But I’ve come to understand something too: I don’t need to settle for a version of intimacy that breaks me. I don’t want to hand my bodPost too long. Click here to view the full text.



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No. 581507[Reply]

This thread is for women that relate to something, whether it's real or fictional, animate or inanimate etc…(shit thread)

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No. 203317[Reply]

Share any experiences or thoughts on current day sex work.

Have you ever cammed, sugared or escorted? How did it impact you psychologically?

Can sex work be something empowering and fulfilling, as Twitter prostitutes claim it to be?

Should sex work be legal and regulated? What do you think about Onlyfans and the recent ban reversal on it, etc.

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No. 581058

>>580987
We have less stigma around sex work than ever, but women still aren't signing up for it. At most they're signing up for no-contact onlyfans, not actual sex work. Are you stupid? or are you projecting because you think taking it in all three holes is just another tuesday?

No. 581443

>>581058
nta but there are way more women in hardcore porn now than there were in 2000, also places where it's legal like germany end up with giant brothels. unfortunately the destigmatization of prostitution/porn and sex "work" does end up with more women getting involved (I say unfortunately because I don't think SWers should be stigmatized because it makes it harder for them to get out of it, I think johns should be stigmatized more)

No. 581447

>>581443
You’re reducing the prevalence of sex work to just “stigma”, which is not accurate at all.
Idgaf if I won’t be stigmatized for it, I’m not gonna suck off some retard loser for 10 fucking bucks.
If you take away the stigma of eating shit I’m not gonna start eating shit here and there, tf.

No. 581898

>>581447
I'm just gonna go out on a limb here and guess you're probably not eating shit behind closed doors for free either, but feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. you probably still have sex in your private life though and if you don't lots of people do. the problem with prostitution is that it's monetizing something that shouldn't really be monetized in the first place and when monetizing it becomes normalized it creates a lot of problems.

No. 581902

>>581898
Also it preys on poor women hard. Remember feet finder commercials, where someone was short on rent but totally made loads of money selling feet pics? Even strip clubs use to advertise for women to "secure their financial future". Moids finding hungry women on the verge of homelessness and offering them food or housing in exchange for sexual favors, and somehow people will look at the poor, desperate and ill woman over the moid using womens vulnerability as manipulation



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