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No. 379519[Reply]

for mixed-race women to chat, vent, discuss culture dynamics, and generally gather. this goes for any mixed ethnicity woman. thread was suggested in the Asian girl problems thread.

Refer to site/board rules. Avoid infighting, please.
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No. 591298

>>591129
>it scares me that (usually white) people will feel really comfortable making a reference to the fact that I don't really meet the criteria for a strictly aryan/euro white person. I live my life as a white woman but to be reminded of how I'm not that white is always a very strange experience. Like I'm in the club, I mingle with the club members, but they all see that I'm not really one of them.
I feel this 100%. I’m very white passing because I got a big nose and “white” colouring (reddish hair and green eyes, pasty pinky undertones). I married into a snobby wasp family from old money. when I dropped the bomb on them that I’m half Asian they started acting weird and funny and they’ve never liked me since nor treated me the same way again. They always refer to me with a “unique background” kek. And they definitely made it clear I don’t live up to their expectations and they don’t feel like I’m a good match for my husband. I never feel like I fit in and am so awkward around them. Could just be class differences too though.

I never really hung out with white people anyways, all my friends are nonwhite but even then they treat me a little different because I didn’t experience any racial barriers at school/work or socially. Although I have to say being treated differently and like an outsider from both parties does contain some racial biases there. Idk, I just feel like mixed people belong in a separate group sometimes.

My Asian side of the family think I’m a white supremacist because I married a rich white man and look white passing. I never said anything about race ever to them to lead them into thinking that. I guess it’s because I’m more shy and self reserved than my extroverted family so it’s easy to project whatever onto me.

No. 591363

>>591101
>In my experience eastern europeans specifically are REALLY bad at clocking someone as mixed, Much worse than others. Most people never figure it out unless they see my joined last name or I tell them
is it good for you or not? they see it but they dont care that much to enter your personal space by asking, they will not jump on you with
>gotcha moment
by calling what your "composition" is, since having some "asian features" and being local in eastern europe is possible
i mean being mixed with one parent from other country is less obvious to assume than having "less white and more asian shaped eyes" while your parents and grandparents are 100% local nation
it is just rude to ask (at least it was in the past, since things are changing), but people can see races and they do

No. 591380

I’m mixed MENA but very white because i take after my white side. i was raised by my mena family but i knew i didn’t look like my family from a young age. i don’t feel like my features look standard of any european country either and i don’t mind it when people guess where i’m from, but they’re always wrong. a lot of people think i’m mixed with asian though. throughout school i had people assume i was and i get hate comments on social media for “asian fishing” when i have a bare face. almost all of them are from zoomer american-asians? i attribute it to 2020 and people wanting to be fake activists. i rarely mention my heritage because people think i’m lying but i don’t hide it either. i hate how anal people are about race in the US, when i go to my home country it’s not really mentioned or viewed the same way. i like this thread because it’s interesting how widely your experience varies based on what you’re mixed with, how your genetics played out, and which country you grew up in/live in now. maybe somebody can relate to my life?

No. 591398

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Anyone else develop hangups after immigrating to America? I'm a common mix in my home country but ever since I moved everyone loves to guess my ethnicity like >>379783 said (mostly moids who do this because they have a fetish for a particular race) and acting all surprised when they're wrong? Granted my name is very ethnic which I have to explain when people are confused I don't look like a racial caricature of what they expected in their mind. It's exhausting and after years of this I introduce myself as Abby or Samantha some inoffensive American-sounding nickname just to escape from the scrutiny. I went through some self hate as well because immigrants from my mom's and dad's culture both see me as an outsider and there's not a lot of immigrants from the same country as me (when I meet them it's like a breath of fresh air). The added expectation of what people think I should be vs what I am is getting to me. I should grow a thicker skin but it's hard when Americans are so obsessed with racial stereotypes even though they claim to be understanding. No hate to Burgers but the culture shock of being treated differently in my home country or even by the two different communities I am a part of, it's like I'll never belong here.

No. 591486

>>591038
Never. When people guess, it tends to be Hispanic/Mexican to the point where someone told me I looked like Selena Gomez. Interestingly, most of the friends I've had are Asian (especially SE Asian, my Asian side) or nonwhite, so I have a feeling that people can tell subconsciously? It's not that big of a deal because I identify more with my Asian side anyway, but I was born in a Western country where homogenous friend groups and having the same friend groups from high school are both typical so I have a complex about it.


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No. 289276[Reply]

previous thread >>>/g/193846

the anticipated second containment thread for the irl husbandofags is here! sperg freely about your trash men here and don't forget to have fun
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No. 590670

>>590658
Yeah, I understand. I am also shy. Wish we could tear those mental walls down though kek it's a containment thread after all.

No. 590703

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He looked so retarded in this photoshoot, I want to grope him.

No. 590712

I hate how he's divorced. It makes me kind of hate him. Of course I don't but I never trust a divorced man. To his credit it's only been one divorce, but still.

No. 590946

I just realized I unintentionally make the same retarded expressions as him kek. But I've been doing this before knowing who he was, just one of those funny little coincidences.
>>590670
For me I'm paranoid about someone complaining about us being avatarfags/personalityfags, or just getting hated on on the other boards in general. I remember seeing some complaints about this thread during last year's bunkers

No. 591396

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>>590615
>James Russell Scottish
His parents are Irish, they had him in Scotland, and then somehow he's from New York or New Jersey I can't distinguish the accents from eachother


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No. 482816[Reply]

you can say whatever you want as long as it pertains to romantic or sexual fantasies about other women and isn’t talking about dicks. if its not a fantasy go to the lesbian/bi thread.

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No. 591248

>>591241
I have your fantasy but in reverse. i don't think I really want to raise a whole child though, I'm just going through it right now because i got baby fever ignited after a woman I was super into got pregnant and I started fantasizing about being in her husband's shoes. Luckily I had a random dream last night that was basically an abstract collage of terrible baby screaming and messes and medical complications and it was so unpleasant that I'm feeling kind of cured now.

No. 591249

>>591248
Yeah the reality of it would surely be way too difficult for me. But I had a really great childhood so sometimes it’s nice to imagine passing that experience on

No. 591314

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>>591121
In a perfect world there would be farmer dating app. But this is not a perfect world.

No. 591316

Dying to straddle a woman's lap and grind on her while she gropes my ass and we make out. Super pedestrian I guess but my last girlfriend acted like I was weird and dumb when I tried it so it is like a dream unfulfilled to me.

No. 591389

Need to be eaten out on my period and would happily return the favour. Anemic so I need it.


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No. 466899[Reply]

Lolita general: >>>/g/208345
Drama thread: >>>/w/338177(shit OP and OP is spamming thread)
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No. 591378

>>591374
The makeup is fine for a gothic coord. The purse has some edge to it - it's fine. I suppose I would change both the shoes and the purse but it's still a nitpick.
>>591224
I can fix her.

No. 591381

>>591374
the makeup is thick but it looks well-applied and this is a gothic coord so that + ringlets and normie shoes don't bother me. i agree that the purse looks like it belongs in a different wardrobe. honestly the jewelry is what throws it a little out of whack imo (cameo and cross are competing with the print on the chest + the layered beads look like officewear) but this isn't so egregious that it's at ita levels yet.

No. 591387

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>>591381
I wear gothic, but I'm pretty strict about what I consider gothic tbh so I might be sperging. My problem isn't that the shoes are normie shoes, it's that they look extremely normie/modern. Lug soles almost always look hyper-modern and pretty bad with lolita, but especially with the bows on the toes AND the lug sole it just doesn't read as a gothic shoe. I think some sort of sleek historical boot similar to picrel would look better/not cut her off at all weird place with the longer length, also cutting the pre-attached bows off those hairpieces and doing a more gothic headpiece would really help. Gothic-specific platform heels or boots from Yosuke could also work well.

No. 591422

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>>591362
It's made even worse by the fact that her boobs are literally hanging out of her JSK in every. single. coord.

No. 591485

>>591223
I don't like the shoes but that coord doesn't hurt my eye. Please post real itas.


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No. 585962[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about EGL & EGA fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your Lolita friendships. Ex Lolitas and newbies are welcomed too.
Old thread >>>/g/536154
Ita Thread >>>/g/466899
Favorite coords thread: >>>/g/528205

For drama, check out the tread on /w/
most recent: >>>/w/338177
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No. 591384

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>>591370
>>591377
OP here, please don't fight over this guys! I'm open to all ideas and I just generally like seeing people throw them around in the thread itself.
I understand the bag isn't to everyone's tastes but I'm just really into the design currently (though the basket is also very cute so I'll likely do multiple clover coords)

Had to switch out the necklace from the one in my original pic because I can't import it, but luckily I found one I like better with this cat.

No. 591405

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>>591187
>>591384
Since you're coording around the bag I don't think the dress works at all. The shade of green is too different- the bag is highly saturated while the dress is a bluer toned less saturated color. Even it were darker/lighter it doesn't work. I'd either make the rest of the coord plainer and use the bag as a statement piece, or lean into the gaudy neon heisei retro look. I think AP 2010 sweet best matches the design and saturation, but it'd also work with a white dress + tie in with gold.

Out of what you've chosen so far, I don't think the hat matches the bag, but it works with the dress. The hairpin has the too blue toned problem but it isn't too bad. Most clover jewelry that's been posted so far matches the dress but not the bag, I'd honestly look for gold jewelry instead of clover jewelry (or vibrant pink/yellow AP jewelry). The two gold necklaces are sold out but Jane Marple has a ton of similar ones. The cat necklace and the baby shoes seem fine, though I agree you should buy some brown ones. Ultimately I really don't think the bag works with the dress.

No. 591408

>>591405
Your post made me think of radioactive cupcakes… which would unironically match the bag pretty well if it was cupcakes instead of clovers

No. 591458

>>591187
sauce on that bag? my gf would love it

No. 591487

>>591405
I'm not even a sweet appreciator but I adore that pink coordinate set, really nice work nona!


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No. 583818[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive men you would enjoy having sex with.

Don't post:
>ugly men
>old men
>fat men
>men with facial hair
>FOTM ugly men
>hair/eye/skin color sperging

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No. 591291

>>591257
What movie is that

No. 591313

>>591257
That was Aaron Taylor Johnson

No. 591342

>>591257
>and Bongs a Lolcow Mod movie
kek are you high nona

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No. 591402

>>591382
Thank you god for your contribution to planet earth I finally believe in you now.


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No. 591319

Anons, I live with my boyfriend and he's been getting mad at me for eating his food. Not eating all of it because I ask before, but literally just having a bit with and without asking. Without asking he'll hold it against me in arguments. This is stuff like chips, waffles, and juice. When I buy these things I like to buy multiples because I want him to eat the stuff… like as a combined unit. I share food with him every time he asks and I do not care. I want him to eat my food because I buy it with the express purpose of sharing it aside from things he doesn't like that I like to eat, but I buy stuff like breakfast and canned proteins and spices and canned fish and cereal and juice and soda and etc etc because I want him to also have something to eat. Sometimes I also tell him not to have the last bit of something I want and bought and he obeys (usually asks for a fucking bite though which grates on me due to his behavior with sharing overall) but he likes cooking meals for me for some reason. I just need help on how to navigate this because I really think his behavior is retarded, we literally live together and all my friends with boyfriend's say they typically share food and keep a few things for themselves but mostly share. So now I'm annoyed he complains to me all the fucking time about eating his shit when I'm more than happy to buy more to accommodate us both, but I want us to share groceries (with some flexibility because I understand sometimes you want something for yourself like a specific dessert or frozen meal or something). When it comes from his check instead of mine he's super fucking stingy.

No. 591320

>>591319
Start keeping your food completely separate. If he can't share with you, why are you expected to share with him?

No. 591321

>>591320
Because that's what I want? That's how it's always been at my house. Everything is for everybody unless you put your name on it then it's yours, but there was a feeling of "community", I guess that I love and I think it's a way I show love to someone and I really want to do that. I just think it's stupid to get so mad over a partner eating your groceries when you live together, and ideally we would be sharing groceries.

No. 591327

>>591321
Well, yes, sharing is the ideal and should be the expectation when you're living together imo. But clearly it's causing you distress that he's giving you shit every time you eat "his" food. Boundaries for me but not for thee. You can try giving him a stern talking to but ime men only care if they face actual material consequences for being selfish.

No. 591339

>>591319
Have you asked him why it bothers him when you eat his stuff? Is it money, just stingy like you said or does he think he'll run out of something before the next grocery run, something else? If you can get a specific reason out of him that'd help finding a solution. I agree that as a household unit it's completely within reason to share most of the food, you're not room mates. Can this be solved by both putting # amount of money towards food every month and purchasing your shared groceries from that fund?


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No. 408483[Reply]

Welcome to to the divination thread. Here we discuss our experiences with tarot or any other form of divination, be on the giving or receiving end. You can also use this thread to practice reads and ask questions to readers. General discussion pertaining to the topic is also allowed.

>Info for people seeking a reading
If you want to get a reading, please leave a post here with your query and general details about it. It's optional but you can include your age, sex, sign, a picture, a song, or any other info you might feel is relevant, anything that might help the reader pick up your energy better. Some readers may ask for distinct requirement according to their reading style. Although you may post your query here, it is not guaranteed that your post will be picked up by a reader quickly, but it may still eventually happen.

>Info for readers
You can come here and offer readings for anons, how many spots you offer and how many questions you'll answer is up to you. You may also pick up any query from this thread and answer it. Remember to disclose what your requirements for a reading are (age, sex, sign, length of the question, etc) and what method of divination you're using. If there's certain questions you won't answer (death and sickness related for example) be sure to disclose it as well.

>Info for people seeking a trade
As a reader, you may come here and ask to trade a reading, meaning you leave your own question and then wait until another reader picks it up. If that reader answers your question, be sure to reply back as soon as possible. Always disclose what method of divination you're using. Try to match the length of the other anon's response, don't leave them hanging or reply with a shorter text than theirs.

>Info for people learning any divination method including tarot
Feel free to come here to practice your skills. You can ask for advice, tips, and feedback. Even if you're not actively learning and are just curious about it, please don't shy away from posting in this thread.

Have fun!
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No. 590106

>>589914
Thank you for your reading! I'm >>587566 I think you accidentally read what my parents think of my husband because queen of pentacles and king of cups reflect my parents more than his. They absolutely adore him. My in-laws meanwhile… they're polite at best and make snide remarks to me sometimes. My MIL specifically wishes another woman to be her DIL.

No. 590888

(me: 20f aries sun taurus venus him: 22m taurus sun aries venus) Is a reconnection or closure likely within this fall semester, or should I let go of him?

No. 591290

I need a reading on how my next six months will go if I keep on a certain path, please. I believe something drastic will happen

No. 591337

Will my cat be ok? How can I help her recover? She's roughly an aries and 10 years old. Thank you tarot nonnies.

No. 591469

>>542697
coming back to thank you again!! lol i did find my games in a super crazy place in a bag IN a container kek!


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No. 516186[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive women you'd want to fuck and have no shame admitting

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No. 590906

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>>590892
Extremely tasteful nonna, Sade is a goddess.

No. 590940

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need to stop falling in love with tiktok lesbians

No. 591075

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jessica de gouw

No. 591220

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This Chinese lady has me in a chockhold currently.

No. 591221

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>>591220
I'm too weak


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No. 442232[Reply]

post here if you have a passion for fashion

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No. 591020

>>591005
It depends what kind of style you like. Personally, if i am going to buy a t-shirt i only get them from uniqlo because they are good quality to me. I also like weekday as well. Both sell pretty basic bitch clothes, but if you want something more exciting, the best thing to do is create pinterest or/and instagram and let the algorithm show you cool stores to buy one off pieces from.

No. 591028

>>591019
>flirting with zoomer vintage resellers for discounts.
Teach us this power

No. 591041

>>591005
Unironically ebay.

No. 591043

>>591005
Don't rely on a list of "good" and "bad" brands and stores. All of them sell a mix of good and bad shit, even the higher end brands. You just need to go in stores and look at the clothes yourself.

No. 591211

>>591005
Pretty damn normie of me but unironically aritzia, they have really good cotton and linen skirts and dresses. Fuck polyester.


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