/g/ - girl talk

>>457545

unless you were very severly protein deficient or malnourished its probably not the case. also exercise doesn't help with height as much as we tend to think. i too used to think i didn't get taller because of my diet/sedentary behavior but it was probably because i hit puberty too early. i spent too many years caring and blaming myself when it wasn't even my fault

>>456817
I'm tall and no we don't lol, you should have seen the way older men treated me vs my male coworkers at my old job. I guess if you're short they might still infantilize you more, Idk.

>>458066
yeah i'm 5'8 and have been consistently treated like a ditz/air head/dumb blonde basically since puberty. people misinterpret anxiety as being stupid. even other women/girls have had a condescending attitude towards me.

I'm short as fuck and very athletic for sure my height due to overconsumption of caffeine in childhood and genetics, but I like tall skinny girls because they're fragile and very cute and soft.
It's like the perfect combination to me.

>>458777
Kek I’m also short and I also love tall skinny women because they look cute and fragile like baby deer and it awakens my protective horny instinct

>>451933
Strangers aren’t the ones killing pregnant women; it’s partners and family members.

>>452576
>>453611
>>453826
I think I'll aim for 2.5 years. Thanks for the advice.

Trying to conceive, this is the 6th cycle. I know it can take up to a year, but this is so demoralizing. 75% of women get pregnant within 6 months, which we’ve just passed. I don’t even know why I try anymore. It just makes me upset. There’s nothing wrong with me, I ovulate, I have regular cycles. 6 months of tracking BBT, LH, cervical mucus, fertile days. Symptom spotting every time, getting a negative test, having my period, getting disappointed all over again. I’m so tired of it. I don’t even want to have sex anymore. How do I just get over never having a baby? I want to just never think about it ever again, never get my hopes up.

>>458671
Don’t be so quick to take the onus on yourself either, have you had your partner’s sperm tested? He might have low count or low motility which is not your fault at all. Don’t lose hope yet nonna, it took my cousin 2 years and their kid is 3 now and a literal genius too.

>>458671
Just give up, make really big life changing plans, and then you’ll get pregnant. Kek
Jokes aside, stressing too much about getting pregnant can make it harder to actually conceive.
It helps if the man has a good diet, stays away from smoking/vaping and alcohol. Also make sure he doesn’t jerk it too much (or at all) days before you try. And like the other anon said, get him tested. You might be fine but it’s possible he is lacking. Don’t take all the blame nona.

Good luck!

>>455136
I'm not a fan perse, I just know one song so far but I'm interested in her because of my little crush on her right now. I'm not into books or reading but thank you for telling me this!

>>455522
I hate to post this because it impliedly gasses her up but I thought for a while that this was a younger Anna Khachiyan

>>455527

she’s essentially a mostly feminine woman who wears boys clothes. no problem with that but it’s a turn off for me. i like mascs actually masculine.

I love how expressive and emotional she is.

I want to kiss her and be held by her. Thinking about how she's a bit older than my own mother revs me up a little bit I'm not gonna lie

Sex dream

He's coming to me when I arrive to my future destination. We're gonna talk all night and exchange contacts

I am so grateful and happy that I am her friend again even after all this time

I really want a sign, not sure yet what to ask for

My parents are very healthy mentally and physically. The body pain, apathy and all other issues are gone and permanently cured. They're both doing amazingly. Every day they are at their best. What a christmas miracle.

>>457986
I haven't been into lolita for as long as some nonas here (I got into it in the mid-late 2010s) but so far I've always been a lonelita. the local comms where I've previously lived (and where I currently live) were already infested with creepy predatory scrotes and their handmaidens, ita genderspecials, unhinged lolcows, etc by the time I got into the fashion so I felt like there was no point going to comm meets. I just wear the fashion out with my normie friends or when I'm running errands alone. I've had some nice online lolita friends but they tend to come and go since it's difficult to maintain online friendships without ever meeting up.

>>457986
I'm still technically in my comm's group pages but I've pretty much given up on going to meets. The main comm is majority itas, gendies and people with a history of drama. When better dressed people do join the comm they usually come for one or two meets and then never show up again, kek. As a result, my region is full of lonelitas and private comms/friend groups that do their own thing. Some people in the main comm get upset that not everyone wants to come to their meets but they don't exactly have a good image. I haven't really enjoyed myself at any of the meets I've attended with them. A lot of them are embarrassing to be seen with and too cheap to do anything actually nice. I hated looking around and realising I was the only one who could dress myself at these things so I just stopped going. Sometimes I will go to a private meet or I will hang out with friends from surrounding comms if they visit, but for the most part I consider myself a lonelita.

>>457986
I'm at the point where I want to give up on going to meets. But I do have a friend that I wear lolita with, so I wouldn't be totally alone. There's been a lot drama in my comm for the past few month. It's in a remote area so this is the only lolita group around. Majority of the events were hosted by one girl. She had some breakup with her core friends and they've split to form a new group. Some of our comm followed them, some stayed, some like myself didn't really care, because 1. that's all of their buisiness and 2. it's twice the events to go to. The original host took it as a betrayal and began a gossip storm involving anyone who didn't exclusively go to her events. It's all so retarded and I got sick of her high school behavior very quickly. At this point I don't want to bother anymore.

>>457986
I actually joined a comm as soon as I started wearing lolita. It's full of drama, which made interacting with them stressful. Just constantly on edge and scared of saying the wrong thing, or dressing poorly, and getting shit talked online or posted to /cgl/. I still go to the big public meets occasionally to meet new people but yeah, there's men and people who don't know how to dress. I feel embarrassed to be around them which ultimately made me stop trying to be an active member as soon as I left my "newbie" stage. Plus most of the comm is into chinese brands only… it feels like I wear a different fashion from them, and we don't really have anything in common outside of lolita either. 90% of time I'm wearing lolita by myself or when hanging out with normie friends. having a lolita bff to twin with is a dream of mine though. maybe someday…
>>458022
it sucks but I really recommend joining the comm, at least temporarily. I had the same fears as you but after going to a few meets, I got invites to smaller, private groups that are much more chill. There's probably a few well-dressed lolitas in your city you just have to find them and maybe suffer through a couple meets with trannies

>>457986
My situation is similar to
>>458166
where I’m still technically in the group but I don’t attend meets anymore. I still post coord pics and occasionally buy or sell stuff so they haven’t kicked me out, but I’m at a point where I haven’t even met most of the regular posters in the comm discord. And, considering they’re overwhelmingly gendies who introduce themselves by posting their laundry list of self-diagnosed disorders and usually own one or two (godawful) Taobao dresses at most, I don’t really feel like I’m missing out.
I stopped attending meet-ups when I realised that 1) I didn’t actually enjoy them and they felt more like an obligation and 2) I was deeply embarrassed to be seen with my comm and spent every meet praying that I wouldn’t run into anyone I knew. Not just because they looked bad (though most of them did) but because of the way they behaved. One time I ran into a couple of coworkers during a meet and they were completely bewildered to see me with my comm. They genuinely could not wrap their minds around the idea that I would willingly socialise with these people and came up with the explanation that I must have been volunteering with some kind of organisation that arranges outings for intellectually disabled adults. I began to ask myself what I even have in common with 99,9% of my comm, considering that the way we dress is barely even recognisable as the same fashion, and came to the conclusion that there was no reason for me to continue attending meet-ups.

It was a good move for my wardrobe, too. Once there was no pressure to fit in with the rest of the comm and to dress ‘lolita enough’ it was easier to focus on clothes I genuinely liked and wanted to wear, even if they wouldn’t impress most other lolitas. My taste is very toned down classic and gothic with a hint of aristocrat whereas my comm is almost entirely sweet, so I always felt very underdressed and often people didn’t even recognise my coords as lolita. I started putting together more costumey coords just so people at meet-ups would stop asking me “who I was there with” (“you’re not wearing anything I recognise as lolita so the only reason you’d have for being at a lolita meet-up would be to accompany an actual lolita, right?”). As a result I ended up with a bunch of coords I would onlyPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>458475
i feel doom and gloom again after reading this. biden promised to abolish death penalty and he didn't do shit i hate him

Burgundy sweater gif for thread pic plsssss

Luigi is a whore

>>458468
rape isn't scary to stock-investors
weegee did the worst crime possible in our fucked up society : reminding the rich they aren't untouchable

>>455918
I just think her nose job is egregious.

>>456064
I don't think she's ugly but she looks like someone put Timothy Chlamydia into FaceApp kek

>>458353
they look like sex dolls

>>458353
If their lips weren't so filled with filler i'd think they were stunning. It's so off putting.

>>456942
>>456958
It's easier and preferable to not have kids at all. And even easier to not date black men.

I think staying single with no kids is the most underrated life choice for black women.

Bridgerton makes me uncomfortable for reasons I can't really explain. Does anyone else feel this way? Maybe it has something to do with how little they touch on race relations in an era where it feels historically relevant, but additionally it's like some magical universe where magically everyone respects black people, but not only that, racemixing isn't even commented on and skin color literally doesn't matter. You're telling me everyone upholds this stupid culture of seasons, gender roles, purity gatekeeping, and weird relationship posturing but nobody cares about race? Even in a villainous way? Maybe that's the fantasy of it all but to me it just feels weird.

>>458272
I dislike bridgerton because it has white women as romantic leads and black women as supporting characters only.

>>458272
>>458293
I wish this garbage show was never made

>>454137
I live in a country where getting hit on is extremely common (bc Muslim moids)

>>454137
be grateful. if you're attractive and get hit on a lot you are aware of how objectified you are. men will not give a fuck about any of your interests/pretend to just to sleep with you. and once they've "conquered" you they move on to the next. i would rather be ignored.(bait)

>>454656
Personally I don’t find male attention that flattering but I like how it makes other women seethe (i got mindbroken by moid obsessed females)(bait)

I can’t stop thinking about when I sent my face to a discord e-girl (thinking she was my friend) just for the pic to end up on a server where random dudes called me ugly and made edits of me. They praised other girls too so I know they just genuinely found me ugly.
This happened years ago but I can’t shake the feeling of humiliation off of me

>>458125
That's really mean of them anon. Sorry that happened to you. Something similar happened to me but it was irl. It stays with you for life. Every time I get ready for work and think I look presentable, it plays in the back of my mind. And of course people say things to me to this day that reinforce that everyone who sees me and isn't mean to me is at least pitying me. It's just the worst.

>>445138
Don't get why people are so obsessed with getting a tan, to the point of spending loads of money on it. It make even less sense when you know that the sun (uva) causes some ~80% of aging, with the area around eyes (also neck) hit the hardest. so, always wearing sunscreen + and sunglasses, also moisturizer,is a better bet than botox. The worst results of plastic surgery seem to be from people who want to "improve" rather than preserve, getting botox at 22 is ridiculous.

>>445138
Has she somehow managed to fuck up her hairline too? This is incredibly sad.

>>458186
This is a picrel of a truck driver and the damaged side of his face is the window-facing side. Everyone needs some UV exposure for vitamin d and mental well-being. Sun hysteria is causing unnecessary anxiety when most people need more sun, especially during the winter for normies with depression but especially people with diagnosed mental health issues. If you want to see a schizoid lose their shit completely, move them to Alaska

>>458346
sorry for ot but uhh is there something i should know, because i suspect myself to have some shade of schizoid and my dream is to move to alaska due to their relatively low population density.

>>458380
No you could be a perfectly healthy introvert and just prefer nighttime. It's probably the extroverts that really go crazy in Alaska but I'm sure everyone does to some degree. If you already have schizoid tendencies they would get dramatically worse without sun though. Maybe try a small town with equal parts night and day if you're hoping to avoid that