>>486087I've seen and experienced this. It's weird. I hate pickmes, and I hate female desirability competitions. Stupid women lose their minds and stab eachother in the back for men who look (and act) like all manner of unclean beings. Just look at the fight between Grimes and Azealia Banks over Elon Musk.
Being gaslit about this by embarrassed non-black women (even ones who call themselves feminists) who not only believe in, but
depend on the narrative of black female jealousy/undesirability to boost their low self-worth is just one part of what made me detach from most feminist communities. Can't hold solidarity with women who'll throw me under the bus.
I know I don't need to say it, but anyone who holds spite for conventionally pretty black women needs to be avoided. Don't let them pull the wool over your eyes by going on about how beauty is evil and inherently white supremacist reeee femininity bad you're supposed to be fat and masc etc etc. It took me the longest time to accept it, but they don't believe any of that shit themselves, it's just wokespeak for the same bullshit female competition. Too many straight/male-attracted women are obsessed with validation from dick, and they want other women unhealthy, miserable and constantly bashed so they can attain it more easily. There are also black women who aren't saying it to compete, but have a martyr-like fixation on being a doormat for men and women of every other group, and they also need to be cut off. About the only time it's "sincere" is when it's coming from a butch lesbian (and if she's butch4butch, understand that it's 99% just another kind of psyop to make you more fuckable to her tastes anyway lol).