/g/ - girl talk

>>121739
>>121746

I've seen tons of incel pictures and the places where they hang out. So many of them aren't ugly and sometimes even really attractive. I know they love to meme about it but for most of them it genuinely is their fucked up personalities holding them back. Also their sperging about lookism is hilarious to me, pic related is the wikipedia entry for one of their "celebrities". I honestly think being an incel is like almost like a hobby for some of them.

>>121681
Would let her dig my gold any day. She deserves better than jorge

>>121751
>being an incel is like almost like a hobby for some of them.
Their forum's biggest bannable offense is "bragging" ffs. Knajjd is an entitled psychopath, he bans incels who get the bare minimum action from girls, he bans incels who use other incel forums, he gets offended if someone calls him a fakecel. They care more about being a part of muh incel community than getting out of it and that's where my sympathy for them ends.

>>121703
I just read that he's only 5'2, now that explains why he's permatriggered lmao

I am online dating and I want to have a long term relationship from it. Can you guys give me advice on what I should be doing and expecting to find someone I'm compatible with?

So typically I go on 1-3 days with a guy to decide if we get along. Usually we do not so in-text them that I had a nice time but I'm not interested. So far so good. But I've finally found two guys that I vaguely like and are not like obviously wrong for me. I've been on 3 dates with one and 2 dates with the other (both were long, his work schedule is weird so we have texted alot).

3 date guy is soft in a nice way, anxious personality type, and kind of sexless. We get along very well and have alot of the same interests. He is in a stable place in life. I like 3 date guy and he is easy to talk to, but my main worry is that our anxieties (I am anxious) might cause problems and I don't think he will be up for the amount of right sex I want in the future (sorry gross TMI).

2 date guy is more reserved. He is definitely hiding that he has depression and feels lonely. We have more sexual chemistry. We also have similar interests and work in similar career fields so we can talk to eachother about technical things easily, but he is not as easy for me to talk to. I feel shy around him. Main problem with 2 date guy is that he lives 1 hr from me, has a work schedule that cuts into our ability to hang out or talk sometimes, and he might be moving away to get a PhD in a year. I also don't fully get the sense that he is up for a serious long term relationship, but I think it's because he hasn't had a girlfriend since HS and doesn't know what to do.

I like both but I'm not fully sure that either are "the one". I kissed both on the last dates, though, and I feel dishonest pursuing both at the same time. I feel like I ought to decide before we get more intimate.


So. My question is essentially how do you pick someone to date long term? What are the most important things/reasons to decide on,besides just liking them as a person? How much time do I need to decide that sort of thing?

Most of my interest in 2date guy is lust, I'll admit, so maybe I should end it with him? Is it wrong to date 3date guy if I suspect that sex will be really unsatisfying for me? I dated my ex for 6+ years and the sex was so terrible I don't think I can do that again.

He's leaving me, and I think I can maybe cope with it right up until the moment I remember he is never going to hold me ever again. He never wants to hold me ever again.

Why does it hurt so much? I can't do this.

>>121432
If I was you I would pick neither. Keep the 2 date guy as a fwb and if you eventually fall in love date him.
You don't have to date someone to be happy.

Sometimes I feel so in love with my boyfriend, I want to tell him at every chance I get, adoring his every move. At other times, I'm annoyed by everything he says or does and can't help but be bitchy towards him even if it's not intentioned. I hate this. Is this BPD behaviour? Can anyone relate?

>>121757
It's probably not healthy but it's commonplace. Currently hating my boyfriend for no reason too even though next week I'll go right back to thinking the sun shines out of his ass. Ain't love strange.

>>121664
DEFINITELY agree with other anons, Always Infinity. I recommend the extra heavy/overnight pad to anyone who has a very heavy flow like myself. If someone isn't using this brand and is having issues (like I did) with leaking and a heavy flow. I'd 100% recommend it.

While i'm here do any anons have lube suggestions for someone who has an allergy/sensitive problem? I have a sensitivity (possible allergy) to lube and no luck on a replacement. Any reputable brands?
The issues I have been having every time I use lube is burning/itching then swelling. The swelling happening over time not immediate.

Any recommendations would be great!

>>121722
Are you using silicone based lube? A lot of people are sensitive to that.

>>121722
YES lube is very gentle.

>>121722
I like the System Jo H20 lube. I have extremely sensitive skin, and have never had a problem with it.

>>121725
Hey anon, from what the lube says in ingredients, no it's a water based formula. No silicone.

>>121744
>>121745
Thank you anons! I'll check them out.

Question about sexuality and masturbation, asexuality etc, looking for opinions

I masturbate regularly and have been a fan of toys since turning 18, I've always felt that I could happily go the rest of my life never touching another person sexually and it wouldn't bother me

I have slept with men and a couple of women but in relationships the sex always dies out. It's a relief whenever I'm single and back to just toys again

Does this sound like asexuality? I know there are different types of ace. Currently in my 30s and still don't know what to call myself

>>121677
Sounds like you're bi and like the majority of couples, lose that initial horny spark that can be short or long lived.

Sounds like you just trust your toys more.

>>121684

yeah I've been stuck between thinking I'm bi because in terms of porn or looking at people I go both ways but then If I'm honest I don't want any contact with a person, it's more just visually appreciating someone.

I've had sex in relationships cos it felt like an expectation and one relationship I had for 4 years he never pushed it so we never had sex once.

I'm at a point where no matter what my label technically is I need to probably only date asexuals because I don't want to repeat having sex out of 'duty'

>>121663
Could you buy a magic wand, anon? It's the best thing for low effort orgasms.

>>121700
I'll look into it, thanks

>>119158
I'm in pretty much the same boat as you. i hate sissy hypnosis with a fucking passion. since it became a huge thing in the last like 3-4 years, every single content creator caters to them almost exclusively because they're fucking whales. I don't even like telling people I'm into hypnosis because they'll probably think it's some weird sissy shit, and I can't really blame them. The sissy hypnosis subreddit is over 2x the size of the normal erotic hypnosis one (though that one is far too redditmale to look at anyway). The 8chan hypnosis board literally has (had I guess) wars where sissy people get pissy that people are making fun of them, and they just spam the entire board to kill every other thread.

anyway… i haven't really found a good source for hypnosis content that I like. there are a couple tumblrs with gifs that have those GOOD moments, but that's really it other than youtube, and the tumblrs like barely post.

>>121616
do you have any reccs on where I can see those really good (non sissy) ones?

>>121642
well i'm a little hesitant because it's quite spaghetti. but ok! there's hypnogirlgifs and eyedreaming, those are both run by straight men and a little…idk sketchy energy. there's also fegerty which is all guys being hypnotized. i don't look at male content all that much, so there are probably others findable from the likes on fegerty's posts. all of those are dot tumblr dot com.

big dick

>>121753
that's not a fetish that's a basic requirement lmao

>>120975
have you tried any aha or bha chemical peels?
i've been using this from paula's choice lately and it's been helping the noticeable pores on my nose a lot.
unfortunately a lot of that is genetics so you might have to go the way of the laser when it's all said and done, but it's worth trying.

>>120592
Relevant article
https://www.naturescomplement.com/2017/11/24/why-the-long-term-harm-of-chemical-peels-and-sugar-scrubs-outweigh-the-short-term-benefits/

>>120975
It's a little pricey but this stuff cures me of enlarged nose pores and also closed comedones. I use it about once a week.

>>121337
Whoops, forgot the pic lol

How do i get rid of the tiny red bumps under your skin that aren't like millia or capable of being popped? like under skin whiteheads that will stay under your skin forever

>>121712
I feel for you, I really do. It's not fair to have been born a woman in this world.

I might suggest avoiding k-drama for a little bit, at least until it doesn't remind you of him any more. Remember that you have so much more to offer this world than just being a wet hole for some scrote who loses his mind if he doesn't have sex for 4 months. And carry on talking. Vent wherever you need to. I love you.

>>121712
Anon those are extremely minor things. You can find a bunch of guys who would be better for you and treat you better than that man.

I need support now. I just moved out of a place I shared with my “partner”

They are still coming around so far as they’ve helped me move but we have to break us as they have done too many fucked up things

How do I distance myself and be ok? I’ve spent a whole year almost solely with this person and I’m feeling almost separation anxiety

It sucks

Do you guys think it's possible to remain friends with an ex?

We were together for 5 years and split up about a year ago. But he still came around my new place all the time so it didn't really feel like we were 'broken up'. In january I moved back to my home country and we talk every few days… I think I'm still in love with him, but i'd be happy just to have him be my friend too. I always let him contact me first (because I dont like seeming overbearing or whatever) and he never goes more than a few days

i just feel like this is unusual?

Also I still masturbate to him.. ugh

>>121750
I don't think it's wise to try and "stay friends" with your ex if you still clearly have feelings them. I don't oppose to staying in touch with exes as I have pretty good relationships with most of mine and the girl from my previous relationship is someone I consider to be my best friend, but it's all because these relationships ended due to the romance dying out. You're only gonna end up feeling unfulfilled and unhappy if you keep him around while still longing for him in some ways. You could try and cut contact with him drastically for some time and then see if you've moved on and could still be his friend again without any ulterior motives.

>>121395
lesbos must love ya

>>121435
doesn't look like Audrey either more like Lynda Carter

I’m 22. The only irl comparison I’ve gotten is younger Uma Thurman

mikey from my chemical romance. not so much anymore, but when I was younger and skinnier I looked like the female version of him.

I never get compared to female celebs.

I live with my bf and 2 other roommates and I catching feelings for the other 2 as well, as my relationship with my bf is being strained, what do I do? Also we are all asexual, no sex is involved :i

>>121733
Except thats exactly what he's doing except theyre the embodiment of sex objects and children. It's bullshit.

>>121735
Yes, but the fact that he does jack off to this shit means he is not very loyal and it will probably affect their sex life sooner or later. It says nothing about how attractive she is, but says volumes about him, is what I'm saying.

I think what will be the deciding factor in all this will be how he reacts when she decides to communicate all this to him. But if a guy is already neurotically jerking it to porn it's already a bad sign. Some men are just like that and can't change

>>121734
Asexuality isn't a thing.

>>121740
Okay let me say this, no one is interested in have sex in the house lol