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No. 110612[Reply]

/g/ is for all things girly, bathroom talk for advice, lifestyle, fashion, cosmetics, makeup, periodtalk. Anything you would ask and talk about with your female friends.

>/ot/ is for offtopic, discussions, debates and sperging

>/m/ is for image spam unrelated to beauty or vidya and movie talk
Do not post porn, talking about porn or sexual preferences is fine though.
You can see all the rules here https://lolcow.farm/rules

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No. 393926[Reply]

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No. 417788

I posted about this in the vent thread, but now I'm wanting advice on how to switch off so I can chill out rather than just venting my frustrations. I dont remember posting about it outside of that, maybe months ago?

No. 417795

I'm sorry this is happening to you, I can imagine how stressful this situation is. It really should not be your job to parent your own parents while you're heavily pregnant and have more important things to deal with.
If a que sera, sera mindset absolutely isn't working out for you, then the best I could come up with to give yourself a peace of mind is to give them a basic itinerary. Like:
>what date you expect them to be there at the earliest and latest (give a nice and tight timeframe - if baby decides to come early, tell your mom you expect her to fly down to be there for one of the most important moments in both of your lives)
>which hotel they will be staying at
>how they will get to said hotel (let them call a cab or ask around in advance to find someone who can pick them up - this will NOT be you or your partner, shepherding around your parents is not your priority while/after giving birth)
>when they will be leaving
If you expect them to complain about you treating them like children who need to be told what to do, say something like "I'm getting really stressed because of the due date getting closer, so I've been planning things out to calm my nerves. It would help me a lot if you kept this itinerary in mind". Tell them you love them and stroke their egos a bit by saying they'd be of such great help with the little one, so that's why you need to be sure they'll get there on time.
Of course, there's no guarantee that they'll end up stick to the plan, but at least you yourself will have a general idea of how things should go. I'm something of a control freak, and it calms me to have an outline of the future, even if it doesn't happen exactly how I envisioned in the end. Maybe it's the same for you.
Though honestly, perhaps think about asking your parents to visit a couple of weeks after you give birth instead. It would eliminate all this anxiety about not knowing whether they'll make it in time or not. I don't what they are like outside of having a flaky attitude or how much you need their help, but if there's a chance they'll stress you out more once they're there, then it might be better if you took some time to fully focus on being a new mom. You can come up with some kind of excuse like thPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 417817

when nonnas post about the same thing in multiple threads it tends to not be well received. anyway, if your parents are acting this unreliable and inconsistent before your baby is even born perhaps you should reconsider whether them being there is a good thing. sounds like they're just causing you extra stress and if they're incapable of simple planning i question how helpful they will be while you recover from giving birth and adjust to life with a newborn. the last thing you need is two adults to take care of when you've just had a baby.

No. 417854

You're going to parent your baby. You are not going to parent two grown adults on top of that.
Your parents have lived like this for a long time. Being retarded hasn't killed them yet. They'll be fine. If they can call you to whine that they don't have an Uber at the airport, it means that they have working phones and they can call the Uber themselves. They'll be able to sort themselves out without you being at their beck and call. Don't expect them to turn up for the birth, see this as a good thing, and put yourself and the baby first no matter what.
I hope you have an easy birth and a healthy baby. As long as you and the baby are OK, it doesn't matter what changes to their plans your parents make.

No. 417898

getting a hysterectomy in two weeks. what do you think I should know that I may not have learned already

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No. 414433[Reply]

Since a lot of posts in the relationship advice thread are concerning their bf's porn habits, I thought I'd make a spinoff of the subreddit LAP: a support thread for nonas who have dealt with or are currently dealing with a bf/husband who is a porn user/addict.

Feel free to vent, ask other nonas for advice or advise others, etc.

Please keep it respectful and avoid raging at others, as it's a sensitive and all too common problem for many modern women.
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No. 417869

I know this is bait but I want to know why would you say so, kek.

No. 417875

This question has been asked before and a significant portion of men have said yes. Same as how a significant portion say they would fuck underage girls if they could get away with it.

No. 417890

To be honest I'm completely demoralized by the prevalence of porn addiction. I'd seen and heard other women complaining about it online but I thought surely all men can't be like that…well after dating them I can say they really are. I don't want a husband or children anymore if this is what it means putting up with.

No. 417892

It's a sentiment being shared by a lot of women all over the internet-connected world tbh, no wonder so few women are interested in starting a family anymore.
Men have become so shit, such a high risk low reward liability in women's lives, that they can't even compete with silicone vibrators, cats/dogs and wine anymore. Says it all really.

No. 417893

The hair thing is so weird to me. Islamic moids claimed womens hair is sexual so they make them cover up. Japanese moids claim ponytails are sexual so they ban girls from wearing them. Girls who wear braids or pigtails are accused of doing specific types of porn in the US. Why are women always punished for men's weird sex crazed projections?

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No. 409041[Reply]

Previous Threads: >>>/g/378416

A place for black farmers to discuss experiences and topics related to being a black woman and the black community. The positive, the negative, the rants, the raves - it all belongs here.

Follow site/board rules. Report and ignore bait. Be aware of common infight & bait topics (diaspora wars, Africans vs African-Americans, interracial dating, etc.) and act accordingly.
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No. 417879

this is true though. only crackers are making nukes

No. 417885

So China, North Korea, Pakistan and India aren't churning out nuclear weapons en masse?

No. 417891

I was not talking about nukes, but how white folks' idea of manifest destiny and being the superior race started all this shit. After they killed the Indians to make room for white people, white people's population increased. then they needed more resources to feed the pudgy white prairie kids they were having in batches of 8. so then they started imperialism and started using that mighty whitey logic on other countries to get more resources. But 2nd and 3rd world non-whites aren't human, so it's fine to leave them with most of the environmental consequences of what whitey did…until the famine and biblical floods eventually reach the West kek

No. 417895

China, North Korea, Russia etc need nukes so America won't invade them. Look what happened to Libya and Iraq when they gave up their nukes.

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No. 400172[Reply]

Same as last time. Post attractive male bodies, without the face. Use the attractive male or unconventional male threads for that instead.

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No. 417810

I thought he had poop or something smeared on him at first

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Hopefully pubes are allowed

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No. 300321[Reply]

A thread to talk about everything related to your menstrual cycle and ovulation! Please don’t be creepy or make any sexual posts about period “fetishes” that’s gross however discussion of sexual feelings during different times of your cycle is acceptable as long as you’re not being egregious or overdescriptive
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No. 416890

Do period underwear actually work? I’m worried about the blood soaking through into my pants. Used to wear tampons but won’t anymore because of the recent heavy metals scare and pads don’t stick to my panties very well so I always end up getting blood on them anyway

No. 416913

The brand is called period. Idk how much is too much, but the pairs I bought were about $8 each.
Yes, I wore them all day in a white skirt and had no bleed through.

No. 416917

I have a very high flow and honestly they work but on the first day you'll have to change them often. The risk isn't so much them soaking through but them "overflowing" if you lost too much blood

No. 417837

Do other anons have sinus issues before their periods? I swear every time in the week leading up to it I get what feels like mild sinusitis. At least for 1-2 days I'll get a big sinus pressure headache, and in general I get the uncomfy feeling of pressure or fluid moving around my face when I shake my head or bend forwards a little. It feels like a toothache at times due to the closeness of some of the sinus cavities near the nose/jaw. It happens regularly right before so it seems to be related. Maybe my immune system is just more stressed in general around that time, leading me to get more allergies or mild bugs. I know hormones work in strange and mysterious ways.

No. 417887

Yep. I often think I’m coming down with something and then I remember it’s close to that time of the month.

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No. 417185[Reply]

>What is this thread
By popular demand, we have created the retarded shitpost thread which talks about husbandos and/or horny shit about fictional men in general.
>Why was this made / what is the difference
The difference is that here you can be retarded about your fictional 3D (as in characters from live action movies or shows) and 2D crushes so you don't clog /ot/. Post memes, be frisky, whatever. Be as mild or as spicy as you feel like.
>But why
Farmers are some horny bitches
>Examples of posts that go here
-I want the Jojos to gangbang me raw
-I love me some man tiddies
-I want to cuddle Reigen
>Examples of posts that DO NOT go here
-Actual real life men hornyposting
-Your husbando is trash/ugly/cringe/moid-tier etc
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No. 417835

Based mindbreaking

No. 417851

Not worth it because it's not even feasible really.
That's… even worse and unhealthy actually. If you have to dissociate in order to enjoy real sex then you definitely shouldn't have actual sex to begin with. Love yourself anon

No. 417856

It's hard for me to imagine a scenario that isn't my husbando grooming me because I'm a clueless autist, I just can't imagine him taking me seriously or seeing me as an equal. I despise moids who try to take advantage of others but it's a perverse and familiar source of comfort with him.

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There is. I only post occasionally other than the main shadow nona. Also saying Shadow is female gaze Rouge makes me laugh. He's a lot more than that but I see what you mean.
Shadow being poly is so ooc. Mfer has too much mental trauma for that. On the other hand, King Shadow from Archie I could see being that way…
Me too kek. But it also cheers me up and allows me to be creative. I rp with my oc so it feels less cringe to look back at. Going on dates him, nursing each other back to health, post marriage life, wholesome stuff like that I have little shame over.

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I enjoy crazy-mass-murderer-cult-leader Geto, but something about depressed-teenage-angst-existential-crisis Geto with his hair down make me hot in my nether regions.

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No. 378038[Reply]

Previous thread: >>>/g/377721

This is for diet and fitness related things only.

-Post your goals, your current state, like your weight or measurements;
-What you're going to do to change it and your methods (Weight training? Intermittent Fasting? Running? Raw eating? MyFitnessPal logs?);
-And how to be held accountable for it, like biweekly weigh-ins or measurings.

Feel free to post charts of your progress! If you're doing daily reports, remember to sage.

Reminder that we're all human and we all have our ups and downs. Don't blame yourself for failing and don't get fixated on small missteps. This is a marathon, not a race. Self-sabotage will only make things worse. Try to stay positive and think of the positive steps you've made to get here and keep moving forward!

Don't get fixated on numbers and give yourself adequate rest days and rewards to keep yourself motivated.

No ana, please.
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No. 415569

This. I wish I could post a pic here without worrying lurking moids would scalp it to post on their little sewer boards, but I am always between 149 and 155 and 5’10 with around 16% BF last I checked and when I tell people my weight they’re shocked. They say “but that’s so much!!!” Or “but you look like x so you can’t weigh y!” It’s really really not that much. It’s actually kind of low for this height I would like to put on another five kek like half muscle maybe half fat. It really is about how you feel, how your clothes fit, how you look. The weight number is only problematic when it’s too high for your size and you are sedentary or it’s too low and you’re overdoing it majorly or are ill.

No. 415570

Samefag, basically a lot of retarded people somehow think there’s some set “hot weight” for women I think lmao. Like in the 2000s it was prob 110-115, less if you were into true ana

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Unforeseen events in my life triggered my binge eating habits from when I was a teen and I feel so disgusting. I'm not overweight, but I gained a bunch and my clothes don't fit properly anymore due to the fat I've gained. Luckily, things in my life have calmed down and my stress levels are back to normal. I get a full nights sleep now and am shocked at how big of an effect poor sleep has on my appetite, like how did I not realise this before kek.

Anyway, I've started doing intermittent fasting and instead of binging on a lot of snacks, I actually eat proper meals now. I love healthy food and rarely eat fast food, but I've had a crippling sugar addiction for most of my life lol and have a terrible habit of replacing normal food with candy. Like, instead of having dinner and dessert, I would just eat dessert. I always count an estimated amount of calories in my head, but am considering being "stricter" with CICO. However, I eat tons of fruits and vegetables as snacks and don't want to cut back on that due to strict calorie limits. Kek I hate exercise but walk 10k + steps a day (I often go for 90 minute walks) and feel like that's enough, I want to start doing strength exercises in the future though. Hopefully eating healthy + walking + intermittent fasting will make me go back to my regular weight. I'll update this in 2 months, wish me luck nonnas.

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i've been exercising 4-5 times a week and have been consuming 1500 calories a day (with the exception of a cheat meal once a week, which i consume about 2000 calories that day). i consume loads of protein to keep me feeling full, like peanut butter, grilled chicken, and protein shakes. i have horrible fat distribution (p much all goes to my belly), and i began to see real results from my hiit days. that extra belly fat is almost gone. i'm 5'7", and the highest i have been was 165lbs from covid. i'm sitting at 136lbs right now, and my goal weight is around 125lbs. picrel is super helpful. fat loss is a lot more frugal than most people make it up to be

No. 417884

please don't laugh at me girls, but I was wondering if there is actually any weight-loss benefit to upping your milk intake? I saw this one girl drop a ton of weight and she claims it's from drinking a lot more full-fat milk? is this bullshit or does the fat in milk satiate you or something?

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No. 48533[Reply]

Please feel free to vent or ask for advice in this thread pertaining to sexual abuse or harassment, etc

I'm looking for advice on how to build a healthy sexual relationship with my partner after my bad past. We've been married two years and he's fantastic. But my libido is very low and I have a feeling it might be tied to poor sexual relationships I'd had before. Starting at 8 years old and then on out. I'm not really bothered by the past but I think my mind is instantly associating sex with bad times, which shouldn't be the case since my husband is lovely. But my brain instantly is telling me that I dont want to do this or that its just a hassle. Often times when we begin fooling around I get stomach aches that will go away basically instantly when we stop, like he can tell I'm not in the mood so we wont continue. I never thought much of it, I always thought it was just something I ate. But today I figured out maybe it could be anxiety related.

I just want to be able to have a normal sex life with him where we can fool around and have fun, but I feel so bad for having something -wrong- with me. If anons have any advice i'd love to hear. I'm too poor for a therapist and I've scoured the internet for advice as well
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No. 413558

I was groomed and then raped by a moid thrice my age when I was 15 to 17 and my parents had no understanding of what grooming was yet alone could entertain the possibility of him raping me. My parents were the type to encourage me to make connections for competency in childhood (like talking to sixth graders when I was in kindergarten so I could learn "big kid maturity" or talking to people with office jobs when I was a teen so I'd gain some knowledge on their fields and stuff), but ramped up to the max, where I was inherently stupid and skill-less so I needed to gain skills from everyone around me.
The moid was my dad's friend, in his 40s, owned three businesses and had a PhD, so he was the perfect role model for me according to them. And if I'd dared tell them, they would've called me a liar, that I seduced him, or that I'm retarded for not socialising with people who could help me with study/career.
I turned 18 and lived on campus for uni so that was an escape for me, but I fucking hate that I let it happen to me. I get debilitating thoughts of turning myself into a ghoul looking creature with horrendous amounts of plastic surgery sometimes because I hate my face, I hate how it was used in that way and all I see is it being "dirty" in a sense. I fantasise about being a shapeshifter sometimes so I could at least be in control of what I'm perceived as. I desperately want plastic surgery sometimes and completely change who I am, even if I look like a botched Oli London.
Just a thought though and gladly I have no money, but I can barely look at myself.

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I wanted to update on this, turns out no, I did in fact not have vulvodynia and it wasn't anxiety. It was a chronic UTI, and also clitoral adhesions that were causing clitoral pain. Although I guess the adhesions most likely happened because I never wanted to touch my vulva as a kid after getting molested, and wouldn't clean it properly. Life truly hates me it seems, it keeps throwing sexual trauma at me and keeps messing with my genitals. Maybe this is a sign I should never get married or have kids.

No. 414004

I was molested as a child and still have nightmares about it. Last night I had a nightmare where there was a 30-something pedo going around grooming young girls in a small town. He also had a cute baby that he was molesting and raping too but social work wouldn’t take the child off him and I was trying to figure out how to get the child away from him and make the police do something about him, he also had a wife/gf who would join in the abuse and just laughed and sneered when anyone tried to confront them about abusing their child and bragged I couldn’t prove it. I woke up in tears and have been feeling so shaky all day. It ruins my whole week when I have dreams like this honestly.

No. 414005

It’s pretty hard to request a female doctor in an emergency room setting because usually the doctors are already up to their eyes in work and you end up with whatever doctor got allotted to you

No. 414968

Pelvic floor therapy has been helping but it’s so difficult. Still really wishing i never went through this for the second time in my life. It’s as if someone lived several years with a fist clench to the point the clenched fist is the default, and relaxing it takes an extremely conscious effort, yet hearing friends talking about how they can move their hands and fingers freely etc. I hate him so fucking much for doing this shit

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No. 379519[Reply]

for mixed-race women to chat, vent, discuss culture dynamics, and generally gather. this goes for any mixed ethnicity woman. thread was suggested in the Asian girl problems thread.

Refer to site/board rules. Avoid infighting, please.
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No. 417864

WMAF has the lowest fertility rate of any race pairing in the US. WMAF couples aren't having babies. I only met 2 hapas in my entire life, they're still very rare. I don't know what everyone is getting so worked up about it.

No. 417865

Most WMAF couples I know of have millenial soyboy weeb males who are aggressively childfree so it makes sense

No. 417871

>The reverse is often true.
It's definitely not often.

No. 417876

It seems Asians don't even recognize Blasians as hapas like they do at least with half whites, blasians are just black to them.

No. 417880

Not as often but very common on the west coast where i live. There's something about asians that produce fucked up offspring when they get into interracial relationships

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