/g/ - girl talk

>>501097
>someone wanted to buy him reg clothes. Do they not know he’s in a detention center with a prison uniform?
These people are so fucking stupid and insane. It's like none of them even realize he is fucking prison and not summer camp. Who the fuck are these people and where did they come from? They probably believe the Kr comics are reality too.

can retardigi reply to one of our letters already, i wanna see what he says ugh

>>501104
That's all anything of this is all about and really the only true way these dumb bitches can support him. Just donate you losers.

>>501100
She's living in a fantasy world

>>499572
yes thank you its honestly embarrassing

>>499572
Yeah it's embarrassing how the recent schizo is obviously a tourist from twitter or some shit. "WHY DO YOU LIKE A HOT MOID KILLING UGLY MOIDS?!" like fuck offffffffff
The worst part is they make the threads move artificially fast because of their schizoposting and self replying.
I miss the VPN ban so much

>>499570
He has shit taste and he's a cringe midwit. Cry about it.(infight bait)

can we please go back to having fun

>>499575
No don’t. Rape about it instead.

>>487736
Like two perfect globes holy shit

>>487736
kek

He failed the squat but gawd dayum zaddy

>>498894
why are they so dirty? what kind of weird fetish video are you watching

>>498932
Relax, it was a staged nudist video
I mean you can't get any more "natural state" than that, no butt lifts, no implants

The most influential factor in my "type" is men with (well groomed) long hair. For concrete examples, metal heads and goth men. Honestly, if a guy doesn't have at least shaggy hair I literally feel nothing. Body type is not as big of a deal, other then not too skinny, not too overweight, and not too roided. Balance.

I happen to also be into metal, and enjoyer of goth music and fashion (albeit without the budget to dress more like it). I look like a slightly overweight white woman with blonde hair that dresses like a casual nerd in flannel. I figure my interests align with guys that are my type, but I don't know what they're actually attracted to. I don't get out much so I rarely ever have guys try to talk to me. I suppose I attract socially awkward nerdy guys that have too much facial hair and are too chubby/skinny fat for my tastes. Like 20-something neckbeards.

I'm going to the gym because I want to be more fit, and thrifting to build a better wardrobe for myself. I'm wanting to get more band shirts to fill in my everyday clothes, so maybe aside from showing what artists I really enjoy, it could be a conversation starter if another fan takes note.

All I ever get are retarded metalheads, crypto conservative christians, and animefags. I don't even know at this point, maybe I look easy or plain. Most of them aren't even ugly, they're just so weak that it pisses me off. They start talking to you and get angry or submissive when they can't counter you. They're braggarts who get humbled easily. I know some of you nonas like this but it's disgusting to me. I'm not even that smart, it just feels like they don't even have one original thought.

I just want someone who will take care of me, I will take care of him, and we can take care of others together. Someone strong who doesn't fold and can support me, the type of person who can tell if something's wrong, who will be gentle and patient. I also want someone I can learn from. I don't like men you can order around or who order you around like tradfags.

I don't think I'm the sort of person this kind of man goes for, though, I'm not kind or understanding or even assertive enough. All I get are retarded incel subs but I guess like attracts like, kek.

>>498471
I got a lot of metalheads with good hair, we can exchange notes if you want nona, kek. They weren't too bad but they needed hardcore mommying, even during the talking stage, at least in my experience. They're not as initially agressive or disgusting as your average moid but can be deeply insecure, and a good amount treated me like shit once I rejected them.

>>498484
Long hair anon here. You summed up my ideal relationship philosophy absolutely perfectly. I want a "partner", who will fight at my side while I have their back as well. That's corny, but yeah. I'm constantly trying to work on myself, with the expectation of wanting a man who does the same. Maybe that's nigh impossible, but I don't mind waiting. I spent so long in a relationship where I was never cared for even when I tried to be caring, that I won't settle for it again.

I definitely see past the veil that a lot of metalheads aren't as hardcore as their music tastes seem to show. But I also don't want someone who's meek/insecure either.

I just want a cute introverted guy who will let me abuse him. He needs to be a virgin because I cannot have my first time with someone who also isn't. I may sound really Christian for this but whatever, I find it hot when we get to lose our virginity together. But its so impossible to find a guy im genuinely attracted to, and especially one that'd be ok with my weird fantasies kekk it makes me feel so awkward. I've found one guy im into like that that's a total kissless virgin and really catholic and I find that hot but as I get to know him more I realize hes probably gay kek. he kind of has that voice. I'm having such a hard time not being into him though its making me frustrated

>>496179
You perfectly describe an ISTP/INTP, go on a personality type dating app and find one nona

>>497868
Yeah but he didn't actually kill him for a reason, he just did it to seem like a hero. It's really obvious. I respect the action but not the braindead scrote behind it. The copycats will probably do better because they can fill in the blanks and attach a real ideological meaning to the action, which Luigi failed to do.

I think this is his spotify. I approve of him liking the xx.
https://open.spotify.com/user/luigimangione?si=81tyIc96TZG3-vDlTUSDnw

>>497873
Nona Luigi is retarded, but he killed Thomson for a reason. The feds want you to focus on him. Think about it.

>>497876
He really didn't. He's actually a braindead NPC. He wanted to be a hero because he had nothing else to live for because dick dead. I believe the one anon's theory that he spiraled after a breakup.

Do I HAVE to allow my toxic brother in my room, under the guise of using exercise equipment? Or is there a way to stand up to him, that wont result in me being abused and/or homeless? Sorry for the long post.

My brother is coddled by mom, and now, he wants to invade my room. He has turned my family against me, esp mom. Mom is only close person I have in my life who I can speak with about certain things. My home life is now tense and distant, thanks to my brothers influence. I just had a bad breakup, Im isolated with no friends or other family, Im going through financial difficulties, have depression somedays, and have to stay with family for a long time. I just want my brother to leave me alone. I avoid him as best as possible, but he wont stop inventing new ways to torment me.

So my room WAS my only sanctuary away from my brother. Now, he wants to use exercise equipment located in my room. Every space my brother is in, he clutters it/takes it right over. I want my room free of his presence, sweat, filthy shoes that he wears indoors and outdoors. I dont want him snooping, leaving recording stuff, or doing who knows what. I dont trust him. He [used to?] snoop on an elderly woman neighbor with binoculars, and used to relentlessly harass me everytime I went to the bathroom. I do NOT want my brother in my room.

If I say no, this could happen
– my mom could physically take the exercise equipment [I got it as a birthday gift years ago] from my room. My brother would love that, it would be devastating and humiliating for me.
– my brother could increase the harassment, and might even take out his anger on me
– at minimum, my mom will likely ignore me/treat me bad until I give in. My vulnerable emotional state cannot take this.


My brother
– did not wish me a happy birthday, ruined it for me. Mom excused it away, because apparently Im not nice enough to him. Mom told me to not wish him a happy bday on his upcoming bday, rather than make him apologize. Yet he enjoyed my bday cake that I made, while harassing me nonstop when I was trying to measure ingredients out. He wants the same cake for his bday, so me trying out a new recipe basically just benefits him. Mom later invited him to go out with us, because we cant have a male feel left out on his sisters bday, can we? He declined, thank God.
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>>497782
>If I "willingly" move the exercise equipment out of my room, it will feel like my brother took a part of my identity out of my room, as my room will feel even emptier. Its like he wants me to feel like he can take my possessions over, like nothing is safe.
he wants a reason to get into your room regularly. unfortunately your best option seems to be give up the equipment so he has less of a reason. gym equipment is not your identity, nor is an empty room. i know it hurts and your brother knows you like the gym equipment and is doing it on purpose. maybe try looking up calisthenics? things will probably continue to escalate. i remember reading your posts before, your brother is terrifying and your mother is a stupid bitch of a boymom whose entire existence revolves around kissing her son's ass as a cope for being a failure of a mother. sorry if i'm overreaching or sound crazy it sounds like your brother might want to sexually abuse you honestly by continuously invading your personal space. you cannot trust your mother. you need to tell them less and less if possible, make few complaints, and limit how much ammo you give them. you sound too open and easy to manipulate. can you make plans to move out or get outside help?
>Should I try to take a part out of the exercise equipment to make it not work when he tries to use it, and then have it mysteriously work when I use it, and pretend to not know why? They will both probably call me out on it if I do that, and treat me bad, so Idk.
this is a terrible idea. you live with these people and already cannot maintain boundaries to protect yourself, it sounds very obvious they'll call you out.

>>497789
Samefag, have you heard of the term "coercive control"? it is the defining feature of what we think of when we discuss domestic violence, victims being heavily monitored, controlled, and manipulated by their abusers.

I'm trying to read your old posts for more context. You need to step back and look at the big picture, the small day abuses are bad but you need a plan and action to get out.

As you get older and mom can't cater to him as well he will expect you to become your mother and do everything for him, and you will also have to care for her too. If your mom dies things are going to get very ugly. You need to make a plan to get out which will be difficult but this is your life you need to save. Your brother is a monster and is very likely to escalate.

>>419531
Many victims of abuse never understand or accept the reality and stay/side with their abusers for the rest of their lives. You cannot save or help your mother unless she wants it, and she most likely will not because her identity as a Mother of a son will come before you, because you are seen as more understanding and able to be dealt with. She is like a peasant trying to appeal to a skygod, to bring rain.
> everytime I wanted to join a club or have a (rare) friend over, Mom told me to quit and didnt allow friends over because the house wasnt ready. Of course the golden male child was always allowed to have his friends over at the drop of a hat.
Discouraging you from having friends and from getting a job? Your mother sounds sinisterly manipulative too, isolating you. Maybe as a victim of DV, she internalized abuse as the way to keep people around and feel in control.
>everytime I applied for a job, Mom discouraged me, saying focus on school instead, telling me "it'll ruin your life", "you dont want to deal with rude people". I applied anyways and was unsuccessful. I eventually gave up and now I have no work experience, no job references, and I still dont know what I want to do in life. Completely isolated and dependent. I feel broken.
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>>497789
>>497790
Thank you for reading, and just letting you know, not all previous posts are mine.

Surprisingly, more recently, they have eased off on messing with my sleep, and they actually try to be quiet. But I dont trust this would last if I had a job.

Youre right, I need a plan. A lot of days, my mood is awful due to the daily nonsense they do, and I cant focus on really important things like setting goals.

I would love to be at peace one day in a different, decent home environment. But its like I cant conceive of actually leaving and living somewhere else. It feels impossible. But youre right, it is possible, and I have to realize that.

I cant do another summer of being this reliant and vulnerable. I was thinking of starting a business, no idea on specifics, maybe something digital? I would have to list a home address, so I almost couldnt move for a while if I did form a business. Or maybe I should start by getting a job? Then theyll know where I work, which hours, etc..but maybe thats necessary to eventually move away. Getting the ball rolling is where Im stuck, I suppose.

The issues: I have no references, my agoraphobia, and due to living in a small gossipy town with hardly any jobs, Ill probably need to rely on transportation. I feel like they will tinker with the family vehicle one day if I rely on it for work, so that it fails. There was a time I missed my brothers text due to his vehicle failing, and he got mad that he had to walk back home in a safe area during the day for like 20 mins lol. Yet he refused to call our parents for help, or an Uber. So he probably wants revenge for that situation he got himself into, that he wants to pin the blame on me for. They wont add me to the names on the vehicle insurance, but afaik as long as I have their permission to use it, I can still legally drive. I have a drivers license. Another thing is, I want to travel so bad, Ive never gone on a vacation. But they keep stalling on getting our passports. They dont have passports either, and they insist on everyone getting their passport at once. Im so isolated I cant find passport references who have known me for x amount of years, required for where I am, so we all have to pay a lawyer to do our passports at once.

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>>497810
>Thank you for reading, and just letting you know, not all previous posts are mine.
Multiple nonnas being abused like this is horrifying to consider. God, I hope you all can get out one day.
>Surprisingly, more recently, they have eased off on messing with my sleep, and they actually try to be quiet. But I dont trust this would last if I had a job.
Smart, you're right to be wary. Preventing someone from sleeping is a form of torture and will severely degrade the psyche. If you can't really live there and work, you might have to put leaving first. But that's risky of course.
>I would love to be at peace one day in a different, decent home environment. But its like I cant conceive of actually leaving and living somewhere else. It feels impossible. But youre right, it is possible, and I have to realize that.
Your brain can only handle so much. I think reading from more domestic abuse survivors will help with gaining perspective and strategy. Reddit is a shithole of a website ultimately, but it has a lot of advice and venting subreddits you can lurk and read for perspective like r/domesticviolence. Especially if you need resources for contacting dv hotlines but can't call them since you are being monitored.
>I cant do another summer of being this reliant and vulnerable. I was thinking of starting a business, no idea on specifics, maybe something digital? I would have to list a home address, so I almost couldnt move for a while if I did form a business. Or maybe I should start by getting a job? Then theyll know where I work, which hours, etc..but maybe thats necessary to eventually move away. Getting the ball rolling is where Im stuck, I suppose.
>The issues: I have no references, my agoraphobia, and due to living in a small gossipy town with hardly any jobs, Ill probably need to rely on transportation.
It is a really tough battle, I do not mean to minimize that at all. Your mother set you up to be easily controlled and dependent on them since you don't have your own money or work experience to get a job.

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>>496214
Yes. I pay attention to Luigis cock so much that the feds have forced him to cover it by handcuffing his hands to his rapebelt every time he makes an appearance

>>496208
KEK yeah it’s my right to thirst over this slut

>>496223
should say nonnies thirst over my rights

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>>493909
Not that stereotypical ass kek Italians aren’t fans of Irish what the fuck kek

I know everyone's story is different but I learned something about certain abusers from my marriage (which just ended officially on paper THIS WEEK). He never took pleasure in the abuse. He didn't see himself as a controller or an authority. He always did it because he saw it as self defense when he was victimized. I feel like I got an idea from movies that a man would hit you for fun, or because he's some kind of sadist who accepts and enjoys being a bad person. So it threw me for a loop because he always made me feel like I was victimizing him in some way.
I "hurt him" when:
>I didn't send pictures to prove that I was out with friends instead of cheating
>I asked him to wash; he had "childhood neglect trauma" that I activated because his hippie mother never taught him to bathe or brush his teeth
>I stayed late at work, because it triggered his abandonment issues
>I listened to other musician friends' music, because I should have known he's self-conscious about his music and needs extra validation
>I spoke to someone too long at a party, which triggered his social anxiety
>I wouldn't let him have sex with me, because again, triggered his anxiety
>and more
It was because I was a horrible partner who failed to placate his many sensitivities. So I deserved to get stonewalled for days, have things thrown at me, get locked out of the house, and driven miles away to be kicked out of the car and abandoned on the side of the road. It really is still amazing that some people abuse because they think they are victims standing up for themselves.

>>455659
Sounds like male bippie behavior with the way every ounce of abuse you receive from them is justified in their eyes because they tell themselves it's your fault and insist that they are the eternal victims, with the constant need for validation over the littlest things, and needing your life to revolve around them 24/7 or they'll feel "abandoned".

>>455659

This is exactly how my abuser operated too.

My crying was just attempts to guilt trip him. My wanting to spend time with him was just attempts to isolate him. My wondering where the man I first met just attempts to idealize him. My confrontations on his inconsistent behaviors and words were just attempts to gaslight him. So on and so forth. In the end, everything had to go his way, on his terms, with no responsibilities or considerations towards me, else I was controlling him and he was not living as his authentic self.

I realized later that he was constantly triangulating and cheating on me (at least emotionally). He's 30, has dozens of exes with only a few months each, yet somehow all of the breakups are never his fault. A preference for GNC & tifs, which we all know are an at risk population for abuse. Claims to be asexual, but I'll bet he just objectifies/degrades women and has a porn addiction.

Honestly, so glad he discarded me. Huge, huge, huge bullet dodged. He has major signs of ASPD/NPD. I failed to see just how much danger I was in until the trauma bond withdrawals calmed down. I've had so much support from friends, coworkers and my therapist in processing and preventing any real hoovering.

Honestly, walking away from him post-discard has taught me that I can walk away from anyone. And the relief from no longer being manipulated 24/7 has made being alone so peaceful. I used to be scared of being alone, but now I understand my true fear is being objectified, degraded, manipulated. I couldn't see him for what he was in the middle of it all.

Always trust your body. It understood long before I did consciously that this man was not safe.

Dealing with reactive abuse. My partner of 4 years will bait and provoke me in arguments to suck me in. Follow me around the house, even outside as I’m trying to get some space so things don’t escalate. I can’t win nonnies, I just want out of this. I feel so ashamed because I’ve posted on this thread a year plus ago and I’m still in this same situation. I have stopped getting angry and giving the other party the satisfaction in arguments however. I still feel so defeated.

>>494662
don't feel bad, i'm in the same boat. it's so hard to get out. I don't know what to do either, but just know that you're not alone. I know this was 4 months ago but I hope you're doing okay.

>>493716
You get it

>>493707
Perfect neck

>>493714
Vote for chained up Luigi thread pic

>>493720
Ahh cute imagine licking him like that and he smiles and squirms because it’s tickly and warm

Hi I usually make op but I'm busy today! I'll leave you to it

Adam Sandler lesbian fashion is top tier and can only be upgraded as partisan-core from >>464613, sportswear is for winter. Idgaf. Fuck old money and all that shit for mascs. Being comfy is the most important thing

>>493188
D-slut? What does that mean

>>493177
Your closet sounds fun. I had a couple of those button down shirts with the anime prints on them. They are comfy. I saw some flame shirts at an FYE recently.

>>493177
Cosplaying as Sam and Dean in public is so based. I wish I knew you back then, because I had a jacket I called my "Dean jacket" and wore it every day.

the dreaded flecktarn field shirt worn as a jacket (i miss it) (might get another one)